As of today, it's been 4 years, 5 months, and 12 days since my wife and I last had vaginal intercourse (the only kind that either of us have ever had and the only kind that either of us like.) That number is only going to grow.
I pumped my wife Saturday evening and will do it again soon. We are retired and can fuck anytime. We are empty nesters and loving it.
Unfortunately it has been about 3 weeks, wife is 5 years post menopause and has virtually no drive. And I don't want sex unless she wants it also. She does "assist" me masturbating beside her.