Bi men and aging

Going by a plethora of online personal accounts and erotic stories yours truly has read through the years-it is QUITE clear that once a guy takes it up his ass-or fucks another guy in the ass----there just ain't NO turning back; this fellow here has read about guys blasting huge loads without touching their cocks-so intense is the feeling of another guy's hard cock pounding away at their prostate; and-on the "flip side"-the feeling of a another guy' tight chute yanking and squeezing away at your throbbing shaft is to be erotic and hot as all hell------ALL these fellows CANNOT be wrong (and a good percentage of these guys are "hitched" to a wife-with kids of their own----DUH!!!!!)-----------------

 

There was a HOT online story awhile ago that had two "straight" single dads (best buds) walking in on their two sons (both also best buds-and just out of high school) going at it like it was going out of style; both dad's were at first shocked as all hell by what they saw-but both guys couldn't deny that two best friends "bonding" through fucking was hot------and by the bulges in their pants-neither could deny they were quite eager to "get at it"------and experience what their horny sons were experiencing-------with intensity and passion----------

 

And-of course-just because a guy (regardless of sexual orientation) is well into his senior years-----indeed does NOT translate into relegating sex into the history books-----hell-if you STILL feel the urge----then GO for it!

 

------we also need to think of the older guys-who until they reached their senior years-did not experience sex with other guys-----was it curiosity that enticed these fellows to try "a walk on the wild side"-----or-were they finally satisfying long-denied urges? That is also interesting to think about-------

 

I have always pondered what makes a guy, in the 50-60 age range, decide that (1) he needs sex and (2) he needs it with a guy. Latent bisexuality? On an internal bucket list that was buried deep but now uncovered? Married guys made celibate by their wives and instead of going after new pussy, let's suck a guy's dick - yeah, that's the ticket! I used to say that no man wakes up in the morning and thinks that today is a good day to suck a dick... and I don't say that anymore because some guys do just that and often to their own surprise. Is this a delayed wakeup call? How much of a role does porn play into an older guy deciding that, yep, he has to have a hard dick to play with and, hopefully, belonging to a guy who wants to play with his dick, too?

Obviously, I'm an older guy but one who's been bisexual for a damned long time so I didn't hit 50 and think, "Hmm, now it's time to have sex with dudes!" - but I've had sex with a lot of men in that age group and it was either their first or less than fifth time and when asked why, some said, "Sounded like a good idea!" and while I do agree that it is a good idea, what happened for this to become a good idea? I understand guys who "fooled around" when they were younger; they remember how good the sex was back then and are sure that if they were to get back into it, it could be better (and they're usually right about that) so it's not like they had a case of dick-on-the-brain appear out of "nowhere" and begin to haunt them until they get some dick (and then haunt them to get more dick).

One such guy I spent a day giving head to said, "I woke up one morning and thought about all the stuff I hadn't done in my life and, well, you know how they say that tomorrow isn't promised to anyone, right? Well, I thought that there's some shit I need to get done before I die and... sucking a guy's dick was at the top of the list and, well, here we are." I was sure that it wasn't "that easy" but his explanation was one that I was hearing a lot of and... maybe this is a legit reason to finally get naked with a guy and do... something. Unlocking long-hidden desires? Latent homosexuality?

I don't know and I may never know the answer but it's interesting to think about and even more interesting to encounter a guy in his mid-to-late sixties and he wants to suck my dick and get his sucked - and he's never entertained such a thought before now. Why not cheat and get some new pussy? I think I figured that one out: You could 'start over' with a new woman who's down with having sex but at some point, she, too, is going to cut you off and for whatever reason that makes sense to her and now you gotta find a new new pussy. You find a like-minded guy who wants to have sex the way you do? It ain't gonna be over any time soon and with the right guy, it can last for years if you're of a mind to roll like that. If not, yeah, plenty of men out there and many would give their left nut to get their hands, mouth, and ass on your cock.

But what sparks that push to do this and especially when everything is going just fine in their life? Fuck if I know...

 

KDaddy23: Your post was one of the BEST-if not THE best-to be posted here; EXCELLENT "thesis" for certain! Indeed-just WHAT gets an older "straight" guy to start thinking about sex with other guys? Long-denied fantasies? Wife no longer "putting out"? Finally acting out on long-hidden deep-seated desires? It is one thing when boys start "exploring" with each other (only to stop because it has been pounded into their skulls that sex with guys is WRONG)-----but-it is QUITE another thing when an older "straight" fellow suddenly finds that he is thinking a lot about cock and guy's butts instead of thinking about tits and pussy-----who is to say just what finally "clicks" within an older guy----that finally sets the stage for sex with another guy-----perhaps a close buddy?\ A "casual" aquaintence? It could be just about anything-to be sure-but-if the desire and the urge are both there-----well-no further explanation is needed------------

 

Wife not putting out is a reason to cheat on her (sad to say) but there are a lot of guys on this site who wouldn't go get some new pussy... but they want dick. Most guys not getting any at home go find another woman who'll give them some and leave it at that. It's quite another thing for a guy to be thinking about cocks and male asses as well as tits and pussies; this is the thing that confuses the fuck out of guys because now it's both attractions instead of the one attraction we're told to adopt and stick with. Yes, we're told that it's wrong and evil but what exposes this lie to a man when, until now, he's had no reason to think about sex with men other than having formulated "his own opinion" about homosexuals?

But now, the old lady's get up and go has gotten up and gone so the answer is... have sex with a guy. The logic escapes me. This doesn't include the many older guys who have been waiting for the right guy and the right opportunity to make his M2M fantasies real; they already have a bad case of dick on the brain. Single males, well, I kinda understand them because trying to get pussy from a woman is like pulling teeth with tweezers and, um, who doesn't know that there are men who suck cock and likes to take it in the ass? For those guys, it's better than no sex at all and definitely beats spanking the monkey on those lonely weekends. They're like, "What the hell... why not?"

But so many other single and older guys? How and why do they wake up one day and decide that what would fulfill and satisfy them is to have a guy fucking them long and hard in the ass? Or any guy without any prior experience for that matter.

I try to understand this since I tend to run into guys my age who are rookies in this compared to me and, yeah, I want to know what convinced them that sucking dick was the thing they had to do at this point in their life. Ran away from it in their youth and now they want to embrace the fuck out of it...

 

KDaddy23: Again-another excellent post; I think what it all boils down to is just WHAT sets off an older guy to consider the option of getting it on with other guys? The factors contributing to this "what the hell----gonna get dick on the side" are a lot to think about-for sure-and again-it also stands to reason that NO two guys are suddenly finding that cock and guy's asses is far greater in sexual pleasure than they had thought earlier----for like reasons------it's all about that particular fellow-----WHY does he want sex with another guy? Does he want it to be a regular part of his sex life---or-perhaps-----the ONLY sex outlet he can pursue? Does he find that he likes sex with guys better than with gals? Is he FINALLY paying attention to his long-ignored lusting desires-after decades of denial? A lot to consider-for certain-------------------

 

If only they taught "BI-ology 101" in colleges (can you just imagine the "extra credit" and the "homework" being given out)!!!!----------

 

"Bi-ology 101" (Sex-Ed was never THIS much fun!)

 

Just imagine guys getting BJ lessons from the HEADmaster!!)

 

.........or working in an office with an older fellow as your boss............and you end up working STEADY "overtime" taking "DICK-tation"(!!)

 

...........wonder how many bi men-only after they got married-------realized that they now had a wife who does not tolerate a husband who also sex with other guys-but also-would not think twice about filing for divorce if she ever found concrete evidence of her husband's encounters with other men. This is why I strongly feel that-if a bi guy is looking to marry a certain woman-I think it is MORE than prudent to see what her opinion is regarding having a bisexual husband BEFORE the knot is tied----------------a lot of risk (and turmoil) involved for certain if things go sour...............

 

From my late teens until my mid twenties I enjoyed my bisexuality and bisexual lifestyle. Then being married I locked away that part of my life and my desires. Now I'm nearing 60 and have been given permission to play again I've found my bisexuality has gone into overdrive. Although I've not acted on it yet I'm finding I'm checking out and lusting after guys all the time.

 

Please keep us posted as to when you make your first m/m connection; sure hope it's all you fantasized about, and that it will open up a new realm of sexual pleasure for you!

 

I'm 73 and agree with you on the difficulty finding a partner. I'm married and I know many of my male friends are in the same situation at home with lack of sex. However, most still have the 'macho' frame of mind. Sure wish one or two would let down their guard, and let me in to play.

 

From what I am gathering here, quite a few married bi guys are in exactly the same boat, and it's gotta be frustrating as all hell, for sure..............

 

Oh, it's seriously frustrating and more so when us old guys tend to get discriminated against because of our age...

 

You got that right my friend

 

"Age discrimination", in any form, like ALL discriminatory venues, is indeed sad........and also unfair.

IMHO, age is but a number, nothing more.