She;s like a warm soft angel pie who kisses and plays with me just perfectly and makes me as hard as I can be. We turn each other on to the point we can't wait to make love and get me inside her. She's receptive to my touch and anything I do that can raise the pleasure threshold. She's extremely orgasmic and I love it.
Some couples need separate bedrooms, it just works better, and doesn't mean you love each other any less.
Wow, that really sucks! I suppose she isn't open to trying HRT, or anything similar? My wife's libido is on the lower end of the scale, but she will have sex with me, albeit with me doing all of the initiating.
My boyfriend is like the energizer bunny, when he is home his cock seems to stay hard We always have a great time together and is always happy to see me when he gets home, so I do my best to please him in any way he desires. I don’t think I could find anyone more fun or attentive them him, he always makes me feel pretty and sexy which is a huge turn on for me.
I posted a question on "rimming" that has yet to be answered, maybe you could. If your husband rimmed you would you know it, regardless of the position you were in?
My wife is very vanilla, this surprises me to no end. She must have enjoyed it, she didn't say anything, but she didn't stop me either, I can't wait for the right time to try it again. I even licked up her crack so I was pretty positive she knew, and was letting me have my way. It Gets me excited just thinking about doing it again, I'll spend a little more time on her "area" then (smile).
I used to have a book written in Japanese about the old sexual culture of Japan. It talked about such techniques used by the geisha and bath house prostitutes such as the Tawa-arai, which is where a women would use her pubic hair as a wash cloth, getting it all soaped up and then washing her partner with it. Unfortunately my Japanese wife (my first wife) kept it (The book that is, though she kept her pubic hair too). One of my favorite techniques from that book is called, kinchaku, which means a golden purse which had drawstrings to close it. Basically the woman uses her kegel muscles and tightens her pussy around her partners dick, like a kinchaku. There is nothing new in just that, but the trick is, to do it opposite the male's contractions during orgasm, and if she does it well, it will feel like the woman's pussy is sucking the cum out of his dick. My second wife, a Filipina, has mastered this. I've always loved the taste of pussy. But not so much with my Japanese wife. She had a very creamy pussy and it was not my favorite by any means in taste or smell. I often wondered if she needed to see a doctor over it, but doctor's never seemed concerned. My current wife loves to brag that Filipinas have the cleanest ones in the world as they always wash it. Indeed it is one of the tastiest best smelling pussies I have ever had. And her sweat has a similar if not the same smell, and it drives me wild. My Japanese wife was not as active in bed as my Filipina wife, or even as active as almost any other woman I've been with. She would just lie there for the most part and then shake her head back and forth when she came. Sometimes she would surprise me and be more active but generally I did most of the work. My Filipina wife is the opposite--very vocal and very active.
When we married hubby was like a rabbit, Wam Bam! And it was over! He knew that I needed More and started bringing Penthouse magazines home. We would read the stories and we both would get Excited about wife sharing. This has kept our marriage from falling apart! I have had a FWB for a long time! Read my blogs if you're interested! Thanks! A Satisfied Wife!
In our case, my wife and I started out as an extramarital affair. We were both in unhappy relationships (though in both cases the marriages were still sexually active), and so there was a high level of sexual excitement. I have heard that there is nothing as sexually exciting as an extramarital affair, and, at least in our case, it was true. That level of excitement continued into our marriage for a few years, but as things started to become mundane, we wanted to keep it up. So we decided to get into sharing. Truth be told, sharing a partner was always a fantasy of mine. I grew up on Penthouse letters, I had a fairly good stash. In my senior year in college, I met a college girl, who looked to me like Bridgett Bardot, in a Boulder book store (my friend and I were talking about a bag of mushrooms I had,in the back of the store and she came around the corner and said she liked shrooms). Anyway, we had some good times and she sometimes shared me with her friends. It really turned her on and I wanted to experience that same thing of being with her after she had been with another guy. We always talked about her getting with a guy but it never happened. Anyway, monogamy is a social construct. In some cultures, like those of the Pacific, monogamy was forced upon them relatively recently. Of all the people I knew during about 5 years of living in the Philippines, I would say that only 2 of them, maybe 3 at most, did not at some point have an extramarital affair. I suspect that to have a happy marriage with someone from a culture like that you would probably need to entertain the possibility of sharing your partner, and insist that if the need arises to stray that it be done in honesty and in this way. In this way it is not cheating, and if you can both enjoy one of you, or both of you, exploring a new lover or lovers bodies, it will add a new dimension of pleasure within your relationship. Especially if you can bring the excitement of a new lover into your existing relationship. The alternative of a partner cheating, is incredibly painful, and filled with anger, loss of confidence and respect, and so forth.Im not saying that every Filipina is going to cheat, for example, but it is something to think about. In my own case, I only cheated once--and that was with my first wife. I was trying to ease out of that relationship when I met my second wife, and her beauty was breathtaking. I knew an affair would only complicate my attempts to get out of that relationship. But I was so infatuated, I could not help it. My Filipina wife had been cheated on by her first husband, and she was extremely jealous, so I knew that even if I shared her, she would probably never share me. So I remained faithful, and enjoyed the excitement through her. Eventually she did share me a few times, and that may be repeated...
Thanks for sharing your story Wolf Man! I believe that if we had not gotten into sharing we would have never made it this far! Sharing saved our marriage!
So you could do it with 2 or more other guys, and he wouldn't care. That's cool. My girlfriend and I were the same way. And even married later.
Wife is a little on the short side... A little on the chubby side... A lot sexy, both in looks and attitude... Looks great dressed up but even better dressed down and even better again completely naked... She is absolutely the best between the sheets that I've ever had and is starting to develop a bit of a kinky side. If you can't tell, I think my wife is awesome