Something I have become curious about

My wife is unaware that I visit this site. But I love reading all the different forums and usually get pretty aroused while reading. I had no idea that you can actually PM other members and would love to chat with anyone about anything.

 

I'm one of them!

 

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I am also one who loves to chat about sex

 

Yup!!

 

Not directly they bring up old memories which do!

 

I love chatting and getting worked up, mine has lost all interest. An old friend and I got worked up at a party her husband was throwing. We were a little juiced and had a quiet conversation about things we used to do, she told me almost everyone she had fucked I think.

 

Yeah I love chatting with folks on here about almost anything. Definitely like talking about sex and masturbation.

 

PM me if you’d like! I won’t tell

 

My wife knows I visit this site she just refuses to read it .

 

:-(

 

Thats a lovely offer. Give some excitement to the other person.

 

Lol, I actually like reading many of the stories on here, but no need to keep it a secret

 

I certainly visit and post without my wife knowing. It allows me to talk about sexual things in my past and fantasies without her making judgements….and she is very judgmental! If we talked about my past exhibitionism or my fantasy of her getting a full body massage or getting DP … she’d have me in therapy!

In stead, I try to forget those urges/fantasies. Over decades, I have gotten her to expand her boundaries a bit.

This site allows me to post and PM others things that I could never share with my wife and not feel like I’m the only person who has these thoughts, desires and experiences

 

I'm glad that you have this way to share with others knowing you will never be judged.

 

My feelings exactly. My wife knows I visit different sites but if she would find out about some of my posts I sure there would be hell to pay.. I love chatting with other guys. My current wife is into sex 100 times more than my first wife ever was.

 

A very fortunate change for you! My wife has moved her boundaries of what is acceptable very s-l-o-w-l-y over decades. ( I would describe more explicitly…not sure if this thread is the right place)

 

Only if you are “Comfortable “. you could share your wife’s boundaries with a PM to me only. If you share I could also share some of my wife’s boundaries.

 

With my first wife she was just plain not interested in sex. We only had sex when I pushed and even then she would turn me down 9 times out of ten. After our daughter was born I got maybe 6 to 8 times a year. She was very much like her parents. In 46 years of marriage with the first wife I never once seen her mother and Dad kiss not once.

 

I’m new to this site,Jenna. Didn’t know you could chat here. How do you go about it?