Missing a good blowjob? If it was ok with your wife, would you?I did

Discussion in 'Oral Sex' started by topper, Nov 27, 2024.

  1. topper

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    Wife cant do it or have sex either anymore. If your wife gave you permission to get a bj from a friend, would you try it? My wife encouraged me to do it with our gay friend, which I did.
     
  2. Bocci

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    I’d go elsewhere if she didn’t/couldn’t provide. We swap with other couples. Some other wives give some amazing bjs. Even when it’s not, it’s just nice to get a different one from someone else.
     
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  3. Windman

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    My wife is no longer interested in sex at all and has stated she doesn’t care how I satisfy my needs, she just doesn’t want to know about it.
    so yes I have tried it and liked it. She occasionally will suggest I go to a bar where she thinks I might hook up.
     
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  4. 6Sailor9

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    :-( …so sorry!!
     
  5. littlepenis70

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    I just met a man who’s husband cant get it up anymore so he told him to find satisfaction elsewhere. So we connected.
     
  6. Scharff

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    My first FWB was my neighbor across the street. She and I always flirted. After a long, long discussion in May of 2008, my wife suggested that I take my needs across the street because she knew our neighbor would help out without trying to wreck the marriage. I still see her now and then although she's moved away and it's a hike to get to her. But we meet here and there and she sucks cock and more. Love that girl...in a sexual way although we have always been close friends.
     
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  7. JS420

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    I would absolutely do it!!!:) If the wife wouldn't do it I would definitely find it elsewhere, with or without her permission, but hopefully with. ;):p:D
     
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  8. Andy Schumer

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    In my case I would likely get my fun somewhere else with or without permission if the opportunity is safe and discreet.
    That’s where I have come, the point of view I reached nowadays
     
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  9. Lovnflman

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    my wife would never give me approval, but she still denies me. She is a very jealous woman. I have had a couple safe and discreet opportunities. I would have felt badly for stepping out, but when the opportunity presents itself, what is a sex starved guy supposed to do?
     
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  10. drock69

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    If my wife can’t/won’t do it anymore, damn right I’m going elsewhere!
     
  11. Lovnflman

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    it is just sex. I’m not gonna fall in love with somebody because of a blowjob. Women need to wake up!
     
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  12. Bocci

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    If you’ve patiently and respectfully explained your needs and she won’t satisfy them, then you should not feel bad.
     
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  13. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    Find someone like me! I will do virtually anything and never tell!
     
  14. Scharff

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    People like you are hard to find but not impossible. One thing I've learned is that if you don't ask, you will never get a "yes"! All of my friends who give me favors started out with maybe a little flirting or just an honest admission that they would help out. You have to try and I'm amazed at how open minded some women can be to the idea.
     
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  15. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    Probably true for the most part. I don’t have a lot of conversation with the guys, but sometimes I do hear that their wife or girlfriend isn’t interested anymore. I never hear any of them say their wife wants too much sex. I think it’s unhealthy for a penis not to be used everyday. Maybe someone should open a men’s sex health club where they can get exercise any time they need it?
     
  16. Scharff

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    Count me in. I'll make a contribution. Money too lol....
     
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  17. amb5734

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    Isn't thar called a brothel? LOL
     
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  18. Jenna1995

    Jenna1995 Promiscuous and Daring!

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    In modern times it is perhaps better branded as a Holistic Men’s Health Center?
     
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  19. amb5734

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    That does have a better ring to it, lol.
     
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  20. Fantasyescape

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    I don't blame you one bit. It is what it is.
     

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