Do you have anyone you share your kinks and interests with

I only share with my doctor friend and a few guys and gals on this forum who I private message with. I typically do not even know the names of the guys I fuck. I just give them a great time and that’s it.

 

Lol your secrets are safe with me

 

And that’s another thing…everyone seems to respect secrets shared in private messages on this forum. I think that is amazing!

 

I want to talk about sex only woman dm me

 

I share with a few friends of mine. Some are online here and elsewhere. Some are occassional partners. One is a closet spankee and I might be the only one that knows that since I do her spankings. I do share pm's and receive pm's about some pretty kinky things here and elsewhere especially regarding recent sessions that my online friends have had. In public.....not so much.

 

I used to have someone, more than one person but in different times.
People change and move on, either me or the person at the time

 

It has been great being able to share some things publicly, but more privately.

I think it's the like the principal of the cold war ...
M.A.D. = Mutually Assured Destruction!

Except for the exceptions of hurting children, or women (without consent),
I won't share what others have shared with me, unless I get their consent.

I found out the real name of a person here, worried they had shared too much public info & I was right with my first web search. I alerted the person to change some settings, making them unfindable. 5 years later still haven't shared & won't.

 

My wife is soo vanilla and prude. I can't share any fetish/kink with her.

I would like a friend to be open with. All of these fantasies are bottled up inside and I would love to let them out.

Plus, learning about the other persons kinks would allow me to open my mind more.

I think it's a Win Win.

 

My lady friend is so vanilla there is only water. Other than her collection of hairbrushes . . . .

 

haha

 

I had sexually discussions with about all the women I had affairs with. We were very open to talk about likes and dislikes. It was usually them who asked about my wife. I would tell them about our life, if they were willing to tell me about theirs. I even had a couple who said they were willing to join us for a threesome, but the timing was never right.

 

My fb and I know each other for about 20 years and I have posted about her on this forum. She is 62, divorced and bi although for about the past two years she has been with me she has not been with women and knows I’m married and also have other partners as she knows my wife and we have also had threesomes with other females. She knows everything about me and my experiences as well as I know of hers. Our comfort level is fantastic and it turns me on when she stays at her fb who she does some part time work with although I tell her it’s ok to enjoy some sexual time with him she is not really into him. This Friday a guy who has been hitting on her is taking her to a gallery opening. I told her go for it. We are looking for a male to have a threesome with and perhaps he would be a candidate lol. So we will see but our openness is a wonderful and fun part of our relationship over the years

 

I wish the same

 

I'll share with you, hit me up.

 

People in the lifestyle are very accepting of others kinks. True Lifestyler’s don’t judge others. Using the term “Don’t knock it until you try it” means you might like it too. One persons kink is another person’s pleasure.

 

Well said.

 

I have a female friend who lives in North America (Kim) . She is a former girlfriend of a friend of mine. They split up about 5 or 6 years ago ( she found out he was cheating on her) . Before she moved away we had become platonically close. ( no physical benefits were on the cards)
I was a shoulder to cry on when she dicovered her fiancee' was playing away. ( I kind of suspected it but wasnt going to gossip about it let alone pass on my unproven suspicions to Kim. )
Sometime later ( maybe a couple of months or so) we had a liquid lunch and ended up lounging in a park with a bottle of wine and a couple of spliffs. I dont know how but our conversation morphed into historical relationships ( and why they failed)
Uninhibittedly I confessed to her that at least one of my relationships ended after only a few dates when we had sex fir the first time. ( even with the constant urge for sph kicks I generally avoid enlightening just anyone about my tiny penis let alone my sexploits in regards to it - especially if they are part of my social sphere)
However I felt comfortable ( for the moment) confiding to Kim that the girl I was dating ((Catherine) was obviously unimpressed with my lack of endowment and was definitely a member of the 'size doesnt matter' club.
Anyway to cut a long story short ( not all in one go) eventually I spilled the beans about my sph fetish. We had become 'gossip buddies' and trusted confidants about our personal relationships past and present. It wasnt really possible to disguise my sph fetish unless I was just going to invent major parts of my sexual activities.
She obviously gets a bit of a kick relating some of her exploits and fantasies to an unattached other and so do I.

 

ps to this post - Catherine was just one of a few who didnt think size mattered but just never had had sex with anyone with a tiny penis. As for Kim she decided size could matter in some cases ( definitely influenced by my confessions about some of my history and she also understood the sph thing ( most dont really get it but that could be said about a great many of peoples kinks and fetishes as they can be very niche and bewildering) I knew a woman who was a sex worker - she specialized in strange fetishes ( many of which involved her mostly being a non tactile observer)
One example was a guy who stripped naked while she remainded fully clothed and just watched him crawl along the floor pushing an egg with his nose.

 

As a 63 year old, life will pass you by, in a blink of an eye. Don't let life pass you by with blinkers. Enjoy what you like (legally), or you might just regret what you may have mist out on.

As it's been say on other post here on HF, try it and if you are comfortable with after GREAT, if not just move on.

 

I dont understand your message. Life has definitely not passed me by . I dont have blinkers. I always enjoy what I like and have no problem with what others like ( legally of course) Perhaps you have misread the gist of muy posts?