Do you have anyone you share your kinks and interests with

Very wise, I try to never talk religion or politics. I still read a few political posts here and can only see humor in the far right and far left. I know it's not really funny, but what can you do. Now if someone ever does anything for the working class, I'll back them 100%.

 

The vast majority of power and money resides in LARGE organizations, corporations, and such. They tend to sell things to the working class but do not respect or value the working class.

 

Previously I posted about my 'kink buddy' visiting London this summer before driving to Ireland. She still plans to do that this summer but in the meantime she has flown over and was in London for a few days before travelling to France for about a week. (I posted about her stopover in another thread)
She headed out for France but only spent a few days there and was back in London today before flying back home tomorrow.
Long story short - WE actually FUCKED!!! A couple of bottles of wine and a spliff and some kink talk ended up with her asking me if I wanted to fuck her.
Ok - I didnt float her boat after cumming too quickly but I fingered and licked her to enjoyment after. It was great sph for me as she catered to my fetish and gave me some great sph banter after while I wanked and came again. There will be no regular relationship in the offing beyond the kink buddy thing but she is getting a kick out of the sph thing and we have shared some ideas to exploit it in the future. ( she now has some pics on her phone of my tiny todger which I gave her permission to share with her female friends - but only as a look on her phone without posting)

 

I had a dominant girlfriend once who was very bold about getting me to describe my fantasies, especially after an incident when she instructed me to strip down and masturbate to orgasm in front of her while she observed me (fully clothed) from a distance. She especially wanted to hear about my experiences and fantasies involving other men.

Eventually these confessional sessions led to her becoming more assertive about fulfilling her own fantasies, like showing up at my place unexpectedly at night wearing a short skirt and blouse with no underwear, pretending to be an innocent Catholic schoolgirl, or inviting me to her place and then answering the door in a plain nightgown with a wet spot obvious in the crotch area.

Being open about my fantasies apparently helped her to express her own sexual needs. Eventually she got much more sexually involved with women.

 

As some of you know, my wife and I are in the lifestyle. That said we have two couples that we play with often. They have become very close friends and we share our kinks with them. It is a trusted non judgemental friendship. My wife and I are very open with each other as well.

 

Only here, other then my wife. She doesn't enjoy talking sex as much though. Thanks for sharing.

Very nice. Didn't use to make my wife feel uneasy but lately sex talk is challenging. It is great to have someone to sit around with and talk about sex with no hindrances. Thanks for sharing.

 

This is what love and intimacy is all about. Trusting your partner(s) with secrets you'd never tell anyone else. My wife and I do which has led to a mind blowing romantic fulfilling active sex life.

 

I've had a couple of friends with intimacy. Not just FWB, which is friends with sex.
It began after I divulged my enjoyment in being nude at home as often as possible. One came around and I had dressed out of politeness. She asked why I was dressed and I explained. She said it was fine and stripped. From then on, we were nude when together at her place or mine. A similar story with the other.
And then, whilst nude together, our chats became more involved, personal, intimate. We discussed things that we wouldn't have done without having taken that 'nudity step'.
Those friendships were more sexually involved than any full relationship I've had. And longer-lasting than most.

We talked about everything, experimented greatly and revealed our most secret of fantasies.
I think the best bit was that when we eventually went separate ways there was no bitterness, no spite, and so our secrets have remained such.

That's a real contrast with those ex GFs who when our relationship ended some revealed the few secrets I had told them. Though even those bad events weren't all bad. One such ending, gave another girl a new perception of me and she became one of my FWI.

Coming close to 8yrs since my last one, I'm looking for any opportunity to get naked with someone new. I'm less needful of her to be beautiful looking. Easy on the eye and sexually open or willing to be sexually open, that would do.

When male friends heard of my fantasies from that ex, two dropped hints and I didn't pick them up. I think I would now if it was just about playing with cock. I've enjoyed watching a lot of guys wanking and want to do it with a guy and do each other

 

You've had some great experiences. I like it here on hip forums because I can be nude, stroking and sharing. I would call it semi-intimaye because I am sharing true thoughts, experiences and secrets with others but in an anonymous way. I'd love to have the interpersonal experience added but finding the right cock or woman is extremely difficult.

 

If I wasn't anonymous, I couldn't be so open here. And that openness has led to people DMing me with photos and then sometimes we've watched each other masturbating and cumming. Mostly guys but a few women have been an absolute delight.

 

My wife and I were " Try it, You'll like it" type. I managed to get her to try anal , but I had to agree to some bi play with our old gay friend. We had planned to give each other blowjobs. He was so excited while sucking my cock, he came in his pants and I didn't get to reciprocate that day. When I told my wife what happened and I didn't get to suck his, she planned another get together , just so I could suck his cock. Only this time she wanted to watch. I agreed and have to say that it was one of the most exciting experiences of my life. Not sucking cock so much as actually sucking his cock as she watched and commented. Taking his cock into my mouth and sucking it with her looking me right in the eyes was super thrilling. I really enjoyed the experience and so did she. She has watched me sucking and getting sucked by 4 different friends and she told me that she cant wait until boating season begins and so does the fun.

 

Sounds great, good thing boating season is just around the corner

 

Its a great philosophy . According to my wife, who can no longer enjoy sex, "Its just sex." ,so why not enjoy it.

 

I'm eagerly waiting.

 

Haha I bet

 

Not done it yet but was super excited about the possibility of it. ( my gf watching me suck her ex bf's cock) Like yourself it is not the actual cock sucking I am aroused by it is her watching me do it. The sph kick is thrilling to ponder as his cock is way bigger than my tiny thing.

 

ps I have already wanked while watching him fuck her but this is next level submissive.

 

I am going to e mail my kink buddy over in Canada who was very recently visiting here and provided some fantastic in person sph. She is supposed to visit again this summer and I am going to querry whether she would like to participate in a voyeur role and watch me suck a cock. I have a candidate to be the other cock. He is def bi and has mildly come on to me about some level of mano y mano action but I said a definite maybe if a female was involved. If my k buddy is up for it there is a fine chance it may happen this summer. I will post to her right now and see how she reacts. My little pee per just got hard thinking about it.

 

Good luck, I hope it works out for you

 

Yes I have some one I do my kink , she was 22 yr old young woman now she is 27 . We had lot of fun with her.