Neither of us is into Kissing, but....

My friend and I have been together many times over the last few years. Neither of us did anything with each other growing up and early on in our marraiges. Since we began fooling around with each other, we sucked each others cocks, swallowed each others cum, even fucked each other in the ass, but neither wanted to kiss.
I wouldn't want him to kiss me either, he's my brother from another mother.
Last night , while our wives were at Bingo, we smoked, had a drink and then sucked each others cocks.
Then we put on the TV, played pool, smoked another. Looser had to give the other another bj. While he was sucking me again, I reached over and rubbed his bulge, then pulled it out and stroked him as he sucked me. When I came , I felt his cock spasm and he shot onto my face. I quickly engulfed it into my mouth until we both finished and wilted. No kissing, no desire too. The thrill of that eludes me and neither of us have any desire to swap tongues.
When the wives returned and he and his wife went home. We said our good bye's and gave each other a Buddy Hug and said good night. PS The wives knew that we sucked each other, they could tell. It feels like a turn off, not a turn on for me or my friend. What are other old men feelings about it? Sucking cock is fun, but no smooching. Thats personal.

 

I don't agree with the assessment that kissing is too personal; I just don't like kissing guys. Have I kissed guys? Yes, I have but the real question is of the ten or so guys I've kissed, how many of them did I actually liked to kiss? Two. The rest of them lent themselves to the complaint that a lot of women say: Men are lousy kissers and really don't know how to kiss. In the majority of my encounters with men, so many weren't even interested in kissing; let's get the dicks out and put them to use and that was fine with me since I'd be too damned horny to want to delay getting into whatever action we were about to get into. Those ten or so guys proved that I could kiss another guy but, bleh, let's not and say I did. Ah, but what do you do when the guy you're with wants you to kiss him? Do you beg off and rain on the whole parade or do you suck it up and plants a good one on him? Yeah, I've done that one and have felt bad about it because my heart wasn't in it and definitely not like the two guys I did like to kiss - and with them, kissing the was on par with the many women I loved to kiss.

I also learned that there are women who suck at kissing, too.

It's too personal? I'm still trying to figure out how kissing is more personal than a guy using your mouth like a pussy and dumping a load of cum down your throat - and much to your delight. I get that kissing can be sexual and not necessarily romantic and I've read reports about some... magic that happens when you swap spit with someone and, in the case of men, we're giving the person we're deeply kissing tiny doses of testosterone which, when kissing women, is reported to ramp up their horniness levels and over my lifetime, I cannot confirm nor deny that there's some truth to this but I did notice that when I kissed women while we're having sex, um, they were "hotter" than those who didn't want to kiss.

I think that some say it's too personal because a good lip-lock could open up some emotional doors but even in this situation, I still wouldn't say that it's too personal, but I guess if you think it is - and that it's a problem - then it's going to be too personal and problematic.

 

I like kissing, the past two guys I’m with we have kissed and I found when cum I’m not in a big hurry to get out of there. We talked and kissed more and started playing more as well. I like both of them but it’s more physical than emotional. Adds to the play time in my opinion. I know it’s not for everyone but I like it. Always have with girls too adds to the sex I hate when there’s no kissing feels not right and unfulfilling

 

I've never had any desire to kiss guys but have done so with several and it was pretty hot while doing so. 99% of my get togethers we simply to suck and swallow each other. Once my wife turned me on to accepting anal sex I have kissed my man more often, especially when I am riding his big cock deep into my ass. He initiated our first kiss while taking a shower together, it caught me off guard, but I embraced it and him to find it very enjoyable. Once I began riding him, I just leaned down and began kissing him again, it was some wonderful deep, passionate kissing too until he released his load deep inside my ass. Kissing another man was repulsive to me at one time, but on occasion I do enjoy it with the right man.

 

It is not that its too personal, Im not there to romance him, just suck his cock. He feels exactly the same, maybe because we have known each other since the 50s .Romance and tenderness is something that is still shared with the wives,(non sexual).

 

I equate kissing with love. I kiss my wife on the lips and often swap tongue. I'll kiss my children on their cheeks. I do not kiss my friends, male or female. I will give them good hugs. With my boyfriend we get together for fun, not loving. We will suck each other off and swallow the load of cum. We fuck each other, but kiss, never. With us it is just sex.

 

I have kissed a few men and some were good at it some were not. For me it’s not too personal but it can be erotic when he is good at it. The guy I am currently seeing likes to make out and it’s a turn on. I will tease him with my tongue an be subtle with it in the beginning and as he get ramped up I know it. He is very oral and he’ll take my tongue into his mouth and suck on it like it a cock. By then I know what he wants and my cock is dripping precum.

 

I have to agree, kissing is super exciting specially when naked and feeling a cock getting hard in your hand. It has been too long since I played with another guy…I need s buddy!

 

Kissing is a great way to dissolve barriers with a lover of ANY gender orientation, especially when you are loving with your whole body and soul.

For me, the best sexual experience is one where I merge with another person. I do not want to be a full-time individual. With a lover, I want to love and be loved completely.

There is plenty of time to be an individual-- maybe too much time in this age when people relate to each other so much via electronic devices.

Completely merging with a lover is like nuclear fusion. It produces enormous amounts of energy and forges a close bond. I remember those lovers forever, and want to cast aside taboos and kiss every time I see them.

 

I'll suck their cocks, tea-bag their scrotum...let them come in my mouth, or on my face...at one time, loved having their load shot deep in my ass, but won't/can't get into kissing or swallowing cum. I'll swap spit with a woman, all day long...but guys? Not for me, thank you very much! Personally I think it's weird that I will have sex with another man or men, but no kissing. Same goes for rimming...women only!

 

It may sound weird, but for me kissing is more intimite than sex. I'll do with you whatever you want (well, most of it ), but no kissing. Kissing is something between me and my wife only.

 

I don't care how many times I sucked his cock or how many times he sucked mine, I don't think you could ever get me to like/enjoy kissing a man.

 

There's cum swapping. My friend doesn't love cum like I do, and gave me my cum back via lip locking...and that's fine. In general I don't like kissing otherwise.

 

I'll "cum kiss" with ladies, but not men!!!