getting older, masturbating more

I hadn't realised this was a thread resurrected from 2010. Still; regardless, my post may help someone.

A female friend of mine got really horny in her late 40s. Masturbation was almost daily and sex was twice weekly. Then decline slowly set in. Less sex and masturbation and, at 61, she felt less moist when aroused.

So, I hope you continue to masturbate, as much for your sexual health as the orgasm itself. It's important to get aroused, really aroused, to hold that arousal for 15-20mins before letting yourself cum. Not the same as edging with its kind of stop/start process.

Get to say 80% way to orgasm and then try to keep it between that and 70% for 15mins before cumming. It can help delay the onset if vaginal dryness and vaginal loss of elasticity.

It took my friend several weeks to be able to hold off on cumming but she got there and, after a while, said she was becoming moist again. Hth

I don't masturbate as often as when I was a teenager but that work getting in the way. When between illness and returning to work recently, I noticed I was having more erections than before falling ill. I would cum twice a day.
Back to work and frequency declined, erections were less frequent and I cum once a day.

 

....says every married man over 50........

 

Except it wasn't I who said it.
She said it, and my post goes on to say what she did about it.

 

thanks for that....I've been working on her to work towards a solution. Early menopause raised hell with her...

 

PM me if you like. I'll chat to you both if you like.

I had two friends when I was early 30s. ONe was late 50s, the other early 60s and both noticing the 'change'.
One felt she couldn't speak to her doctor coz he was too old and she wasn't comfortable talking about such things with him.

I was pleased she felt at ease with me.

Anyhoo, next time I was with my own doctor, getting my prostate checked early in life due to family history, She, the doc, and I developed a rapport where I felt able to ask her anything without embarrassment.
So I asked on behalf of my friend and she advised what she should do.
She wrote it down on headed note paper, at my request, so my friend would know I wasn't bull-shitting her.
It took her a while of practice to do the 'exercises' and needed help from me.
Well, she needed help and chose me to help her.

So, after about 2 months, she was doing the exercises successfully, on her own, and noticed her change in reversal, such that she was more lubricated again, her libido rose and she became more easily orgasmic.
She described it as something awakening inside her and every day, she was texting me asking when I would call in next.
Yes, she was quite rampant but it was lovely to see her come alive.
I didn't (and don't), know what she was like before the change began but, compared to when I first met her, she became very alive.

I'll explain in more detail in PMs if you choose or she chooses to PM me.
B

 

Well, I'm 63 and at a guess would say I masturbate more now than I did in my 20's or 30's! Having regular sex with various "friendly girls" and then my wife would have had a big effect on masturbating then of course.

I'm an "at least once a day" and sometimes 2 or 3 given the chance, kinda guy

 

I’m 64 and masturbate as much as I ever did, which is a lot. I don’t orgasm as frequently these days but spend more time masturbating than ever, now that I’m retired.

 

It’s great that your sex drive is increasing as you age! Enjoy yourself and masturbate as often as you want!

I'm also in my late forties and still love to masturbate as often as possible!

 

May I help?

 

Since I seperated from my wife I wank off at least 2-3 times every single day
My cock needs attention

 

I do at least every other day

 

Don't they all.

 

My gf's desires have slowed down considerably so I look after myself at least once a day. It might be even more now that I've discovered all of these real life comments on Hip. I seem to be drawn to the Love and Sex section immediately after opening Hip, and especially to the masturbation section.

 

Are there other sections then hahahaha

 

I have to touch my penis on a regular basis each day. It’s an addiction and obsession for me that I don’t want to break. I make sure to help my penis become fully erect at least once a day to exercise his abilities and he always wakes himself up quickly and easily.

It’s so very important and pleasurable to masturbate and exercise my aging penis and testicles on a regular basis and let my body enjoy his sexual energy as I slowly and gently take him to a beautiful orgasm as he ejaculates so easily!

 

The older I get the more I masturbate I masturbate four times a day and I eat all of my cum .

 

I spend a lot more time masturbating these days than in my younger days (if such a thing is possible!). Probably because I have more free time than in the past.

To spend time going from video to video until I get that release is always one of the best parts of the day.

Sad to hear that now that I'm actively looking for an ongoing masturbation bud, Skype is changing to "Teams". I'm curious if Teams will be a good choice privacy-wise.

 

Giving it a go ("JUST JOKING"), I think this is setup as a business meeting facility. But I am not sure. Best research it first my friend.

Before the hounds of hell, come knocking at your door.

Enjoy the rest of your day, my friend.

 

So do I and I can’t get enough.

 

Strees in are life can have MANY ADVERSE EFFECTS, that we must try are very best to keep onto off.