Does your wife/girlfriend really like sucking your cock ?, or is she just going through the motions

My wife has never really been into sucking cock, if I asked her to she would but I could tell it wasn't her thing. As a result I've never came from her just giving me a bj.
I read somewhere that if a guy sucks cock, it's because he wants to, but women may see it more as an obligation....

 

You're pretty much spot-on with your assessment. I've known women to suck my dick and give me full blowjobs for x-amount of time before she stops sucking me off and now she only sucks my dick out of the obligation to do so... until she figures out that she doesn't have to and more so now that she's gotten her hooks into you already so there's no longer a need for her to be doing something that she'd rather not do all that much. It's not all women, of course, but, yeah, it's the majority of them. I'm a cocksucker and I do it because I love doing it and I've sucked off many a man whose woman refuses to give head to let alone suck him off. To me, there is nothing worse than getting a blowjob from a woman who's just going through the motions.

 

My current girlfriend likes to suck cock. It was the first thing she whispered in my ear as we were going down the highway for a night out in another town. I whispered back, 'I like road head', and the next thing I knew my cock was in her mouth and she was giving it all she could. I pulled over onto an approach because the road was quite busy and she finished me off in just a few minutes. She still going at it two years later.

 

Honestly, I think she does it just because she knows I like it so much.....and she knows I will never last long - and in ten minutes or less, I am an overly happy husband..

She may not really enjoy what she is doing, but is she ever good at it..... If something happened and and magically I didn't need it like I do, I don't think she'd be particularly upset.....

 

Crikey, that's a long BJ! Lol

 

When a woman REALLY enjoys sucking cock, it definitely makes all the difference. A playmate I had when the wife and I were in the lifestyle, absolutely could not wait to suck me, during our first playdate, the moment we got in the room, she was on her knees, undoing my jeans and a couple of seconds later, my cock was in her mouth. Within a minute I was hard as a rock and a couple of minutes later I told her I was about to cum, she stopped and said she wanted my load in her pussy... and that's exactly where I put it. After some recovery time she started sucking me again, saying she wanted to suck me off, took a few minutes longer but I came in her mouth ( which she wanted ) and she swallowed every drop, the first of many good times with her..

 

I've known women who are cock-sucking fiends. I had one for a girlfriend and if she had a chance to blow me, she'd take it and, sometimes, no matter where we happened to be. She was damned good at it, too; it never took her very long to get me off and it broke my heart when she moved away. Now, my current wife would suck me off just for the hell of it but after we got married? She'd just go through the motions and, honestly, I expected it because that's what most women do; do what they gotta do to get a guy and once she has him, don't even ask to be sucked off... or even sucked.

 

I agree 100%.....

 

The good part for me? I don't have a problem letting guys suck me off so when women want to play games with blowjobs, I know guys who don't play...

 

Awesome

 

My spouse told me the only reason she has had my cock in her mouth was because it was attached to me. Otherwise she wouldn't have done it. She said she can't keep her jaw open very long before it starts to hurt. Then she has trouble breathing so she has to come off in order to catch a breath. She says it's really not that much fun nor did it turn her on.

 

I guess I'm lucky as my wife has always enjoyed sucking my cock . And still does .

 

Before she stopped she just went through the motions. She preferred just giving hand jobs. Not that those are bad. I didn't realize how good getting a GOOD blowjob was until my neighbor gave me one and she didn't love it but didn't hate it. That said, she enjoyed feeling a man get bigger in her mouth. Later, I met my second FWB and she is obsessed with seeing, touching and sucking cock. I've never met someone so cock obsesses and she LOVES to suck. She gags a little at first but settles in nicely. My other FWB is just plain good at it. For her, sucking a cock is completely natural and normal and her comfort at giving pleasure really shows. And I have the pics to prove it lol....

 

My wife will do it but like you guys said it’s more like she feel like she needs to than wants to. There are some rare occasions it seems like she wants to and is cock hungry but those are few and far between. She knows how much I love them and how badly I want her to swallow. She’s only swallowed once or twice and still complains about it. But yet she gets her foot rubs that she constantly tells me you have no idea how good they feel. Thinking to myself really? I mean really? As I give them to her just about every night. I would love a wife hungry for cock and to please me as I would her.

 

:-(

 

No sad face needed. I really don't get off from oral. All it is for me is a warm up for entering the pussy. That I can find with other women.

 

Last night as an example...."I'm not up for fun....but no worries, you'll still have yours...." Five or ten minutes later, I'm an overly satisfied husband and she can roll over and go to sleep.....and maybe I will do some laundry today.....funny how that works.

 

I have posted about my wife being the blowjob queen in college and to this day she truly loves sucking cock. My fb is a true nymph and also loves it. My fwb always says that sucking cock is very sensual and personal and she finds it more intimate than getting fucked so she saves it for only those she really likes. I’m fortunate that they all enjoy it. In my opinion when a lady strokes the shaft almost like a handjob then they may not really be into it. Just my opinion

 

Happy for you dude, wish my wife was that way

 

But then, wives wonder why their man gets with another man to get his dick sucked and finished off?