Does your wife/girlfriend really like sucking your cock ?, or is she just going through the motions

She sucked me some last night while was playing with her pussy but she has no interest in making me cum that way. She’s told me sucking my dick makes her so wet yet she doesn’t really enjoy or want to do it? Something doesn’t seem to add up.

 

Sorry to hear that..

 

I can count on one hand how many times it was her idea to give me a bj. There were a few times she just pulled my pants down and just started sucking. I miss those days.

 

My wife has always loved sucking my cock, and others for that matter. As a retired nurse she has always been intrigued by males genitalia. Around our house, she watches my cock all the time. She enjoys just giving me a few short bj’s, several times daily, just to keep the blood flowing down there. No prostate problems yet.
Off topic: At 71, I have no ED issues, and we have sex 2-3 weekly.
We love each other very much, but we really have sex for our health.

 

My wife used to get horny and just start sucking me off from time to time. The fact that I would do things to get her off as well certainly helped inspire her. When we had sex, we often started in a 69 where I'd cum down her throat while I got her off with my tongue and fingers. Then we'd fuck. Good times.

 

My wife wasn't one that was born loving to suck cock but she did end up that way . She does love sucking a nice cock but not just anybody's . She has to at least like them as a person .
When she does they're in for a real treat . Not a facial girl but a swallower all the time .

 

My fwb loves it. She sucks my cock every chance she gets.

 

My first wife had always sucked my dick during sex, but only to get it hard so she could get the fucking she is really wanting. The times she was having her period, she'd say she's blow me. It would take her 40 minutes to suck my load out and complaining the whole time. I eventually realized guys give much better head and are enthusiastic while doing so.

 

Went to dinner with my fwb last night and in the car at her house she said come in I need to suck your cock lol. Who was I to refuse! Worked out well because I then had the honor to eat and fuck her. Everyone was a winner

 

My ex wife never liked it. She kind of did it as a favour. Towards the end of our relationship I only got a BJ on my birthdays. Isn't that sad? And even when she used to suck me off she never swallowed. Always got up and spat it out in the sink. That kind of takes the erotic frisson out of the proceedings really. Certainly made me wish I could still do it to myself like I could when younger.
Anyhoo, my new wife worships my penis and loves to take me in her mouth. I am also enjoying snowballs with her, which at 60 something is a new and lovely experience for me

 

Sadly for many of us guys the wives aren't into it. But I think some of that is due to the fact that they see videos of women looking like they aren't enjoying it, or the man has his and on the back of her head like he is forcing her to do it. When I see those videos or images online, I can't help but think "she isn't enjoying this". Maybe I am wrong, but that is the way it looks. And I think that puts it into their minds that it is a control thing for the men (and maybe it is for some.... or was years ago).

For me I would love my wife to really want and enjoy it. But she isn't into it and I am not going to play mind games with her just to get a good blowjob. I enjoy it when she does it and I tell her that. Now, is it the same as from a woman (or man) that truly enjoys it, no. But she is willing (to an extent) to get slightly beyond her comfort zone and attempt it. Which is good with me.

If that doesn't take care of it, I got two good hands that can. And when she knows I have recently masterbated, she will ask what I was thinking of to get me off. I tell her the truth, I was thinking of her going down on me like she really wants it and is enjoying it. I think to an extent that keeps her trying. She wants to please me, but if she really isn't into it, she isn't. But..... she knows I LOVE going down on her and she will sometimes ask me to when we go to bed. And I always oblige.

I don't do it to make her feel guilty for not being as willing to return the favor, but if that helps..... I will take it.

 

I wondered the same thing, so I asked. She told me how much she learned to like sucking cocks in college. She especially likes to suck mine when it has been in her pussy and she can taste her own juice on my cock.

 

That's hot, my wife has tasted herself on my cock, but there was one playmate I had that my wife LOVED tasting on my cock, she loved sucking my cock after it had been in my playmate

 

My first wife told me that she liked tasting our poly wife's pussy on my dick.

 

The wife has a so-so opinion of tasting herself on my dick, neither for or againat it. I think she prefers tasting other women over herself....

 

My wife wasn't ever very interested in sucking my cock after we'd fucked . One night with friends she started sucking me after I'd fucked our friend . She wasn't bashful about it either . Made me wonder about her motives but nothing ever developed from it . They were both superb cocksuckers .

 

Over the years two of the women that I have had long term relationships with loved to suck my cock. There would be times that I would be watching TV and they would ask if I wanted a blowjob or if I wanted my cock sucked before I went to work. I sure miss those days!!!!!

 

I used to think it was a cliche but she couldn't get enough until the ring went on.
Now like most married women she treats blow jobs like anti-rust paint. One application lasts 5 yrs.

 

:-(

 

My gf lives giving me head. She even practiced with fat dildos so she could suck me better (she could only take a couple of inches). Now she can give me a deepthroat. The only person who ever could! She’s disappointed if I get her off with my mouth (we’re working on getting my fatty into her pussy) and she can’t suck me off.