What would it take to get you to suck a cock?

Cheeky!

 

Someone with a cock that needs sucking to respond!

 

The tyrrany of distance. I've felt unwanted for decades. It would be great even if that were all there was.

 

Many times, while in the shower at the gym I'd see a man with a bigger than average cock and was caught staring. He'd walk over to me and say something like "You like what you see"? or "Would you like to suck on it"? Outside we went so I could suck his cock. All it takes for me to suck a cock is to see his cock and for him to allow me to suck on it.

 

not much, just tell me to open my mouth, lol

 

Cock!

 

You are a good soul!

 

Sounds like you've lived through feeling unwanted.

 

I have, especially when ex-lovers and wife all cheated on me. And now, finding it hard to really connect. But, I share blame as well.

 

Its difficult to learn to trust again after a lover has betrayed you sexually. Maybe you could try looking into tantric sex to heal

 

Umm, you would make a good therapist, lmao and I need a good therapist to help me get over feeling not wanted

 

My embrace of nudism has helped my accept my body, which was one aspect that suffered rejection. I have not thought at all about tantric sex. I will look into it. I know healing has to be within.

 

Thank you, thats very kind of you to say. There are so many out there that feel undesirable that truly don't need to feel that way. Enough just a hug from another is enough

 

I’m a demisexual (new term to me) so I need to get to know someone first and have some type of connection. I have tried the quick blo-n-go, not for me. Sex is so much more passionate when people have feelings for each other.

 

I hope you do, continue to seek out healing and be your most natural self as often as you can!

 

I will, and thanks for providing support as well as healing suggestions.

 

Any questions or just need to talk, don't hestiate to reach out

 

Do you have any favorite resources for getting into tantric sex? I assume you practice it and have found it to be transformative

 

Learning to bond with yourself mind body and spirit is the most important thing