Is it cheating?

What Cheaters don't see is the HURT while it is fun and games to them. If it has not happened to you, then you have no idea of what they are going threw because because of the "screw you" attitude. When the one you love more than life shows how much they hate you by doing the worst thing they could ever do against you, it is not just an heart ache but a physical pain in your heart that feels like a knife has cut into it and it is an eternal hurt that will be with you forever and every time you hear "She is cheating on you" you feel it again. They bare the shame in ridicule and called stupid and a fool and shun you and will not talk to you. They will sympathize with the woman but will blame the man as more his fault because he put up with it. Cheaters are low Life of dishonesty, Liars and Self Centered that only care for themselves looking for other Low Life. I Know because my father in law cheated on his wife their while married life. "The sins of the father shall visit the children" and my wife cheated on me our whole married life. But no one else matters but YOU

 

Perhaps some introspection wouldn't go amiss. It seems you're blaming everyone else with no criticism of yourself.

 

Nailed it!

 

It is a high risk game and the consequences are steep if it goes wrong. At the tail end of our marriage (when we both knew it was over and she didn't put any effort into it and we had acknowledged that we were getting a divorce), I may have thought about dipping my wick in other pots. I had no interest in harming her or my kids but, 3 years of no sex for a healthy (well, hypersexual) man is not healthy (actually it is quite harmful). However, if I did do that I'd have follow some guidelines to make sure she would never find out. I would be extremely discrete, never banging anyone I or she knew, only fooling around when I was out of town on business. I travelled all over the world and had legitimate phones for multiple different countries, so she wouldn't notice and extra (burner) phone in my brief case. I'd never store any pictures, numbers or names in any device that was not encrypted with military grade encryption and hidden vaults. In fact, I'd have a separate encrypted thumb drive with an onion/tor browser on it for visiting certain websites. I would leave my primary phone in the hotel and only bring out my burner. I'd never told any of my dates my actual last name. I'd rarely see the same woman twice but maybe there would be a couple I's see multiple times. I'd never shared intimate details or buy them expensive gifts or other such stuff. It was only sex I needed. I'm not particularly good looking, but I have always been quite fit, I dress well and I think the fact that I have no game actually helps me. The women I would have hooked up with were all younger (10-20 years) than me and most of them would have been 7+. Never once would I think, I want to run away with this girl.

Well, if I was going to do it, that's probably how I would do it.