No, I started being bi when I was 12 or so. I had many of girlfriend's in my teens, but always looked forward to being with my buddy.
I had a guy who came around offen I guess i was his female slut I couldn't turn him down at any time! He was all hands when we got together he just love feeling me up from head to toe! Although I didn't like kissing he just love kissing but I couldn't turn him away! was his honey for some time before it ended!
I think I’ve always been bi, when I was young I wanted some of my friends, when I got drunk and it was me and a buddy I thought wonder if he’d want to have sex. I had girlfriend s got married and had a good sex live up till 35 then it all down hill many fights about sex, she didn’t want it. Around 40 I got a fwb girlfriend but it was the once in awhile sex life. Sex with the wife was only 5 times a year from age 40 to 53 then stopped all together. I still thought about sex either way guys here and there but when the sex stopped all together it became very much a want and desire. I looked at gay porn thought a lot about it. Went on a gay site looked and finally took the plunge last May. It’s been a year now been fucked by 3 guys and given head to 4 others I like it. I don’t think I’ll stop because it fills in the need for sex and intimacy on the physical level. Is it what I envisioned for my life no but I will take what I can get and enjoy it.
I became bi for one reason-- I simply love to be intimate and sexual with both men and women. This is how my sex life started, and it continues to this day.
For myself as soon as I was getting aroused it was for more then just the opposite sex I just did not expect it. Porn did not make me bi it just made it more clear what I liked
I think that is exactly what did it for me, but I don't think porn really had anything to do with it.!! I think it was more the lack of human contact during sex. Masturbation is/was nice, but it's so much more enjoyable when someone does it for you!!! Pretty much the "any port in a storm" attitude.
I became bi because my first many years of sexual experiences were same sex. I came to enjoy other cocks, sucking, cum in my mouth...and I discovered girls but never list my desire for cock. Then when the sex in marriage dried up...that fueled my bi/gay desires even more.
For me I think I've always been a bi male. I remember being attracted to the same sex as a teen but never really thought much about it, I never labelled myself in that way. I've had a few sexual encounters with the same sex including sleeping with another man when I was 20. I still didn't label myself as bi and have continued to have relationships with only women. Thoughts of gay sex would often come into my mind, I'd occasionally watch gay porn. I'm now out as bi, it's done wonders for my mental health accepting that part of myself.
Mental health is important…as i always been straight after discovering being attracted to male with certain types evolved into intimate lifestyles I was also going through identity crisis of being bi/gay or become gay fully …as i was developing deep feeling with some of my partners …it took a while, thanks to wife …I try not to put labels. I love my wife , we have occasional sex, we have young family…but I have more bi/gay sex on weekly bases then with my wife …
For me I became bi due to a very kinky girlfriend that talked me into a threesome with another guy. After he and I had shared her, she began coaxing me to touch his cock and to let him touch mine. That first threesome led to my first time sucking another man’s cock, and I was hooked. Scared but hooked.
Once you’re hooked you will never go back, you will want more , to a point you will hunt for it …being bi/gay is best part of the exploring both sex …..life is soo good when you can enjoy both sex ….sorry for ppl who don’t see the benefit