While I love giving blow jobs, don't dismiss a good hand job! Use oil and make it much more of an edging cock massage. This is one of my favorite things to do to another guy.
Even HOTTER is when your jackoff bud is married, and you blast a hot, thick, load of man-sperm that oozes all over his wedding band.........HOT AS HELL!
I have never given or received a hand job from another dude. The only times I’ve Had another guys hard cock in my hand was with my SB While guiding him into my mouth. Of course he did the same with me. That went on for a couple of years, but that was decades ago. I figure if I’m going to get a hand job, no one has it better than me. JMHO.
Just last week I was with a friend and we were stroking and sucking each others hard cocks. He fucked me for a while and I have a wonder prostate orgasm. I took the condom off his cock and sucked him some more, I then lubed his cock up real good and jacked him vigorously until he started to spurt. The first shot landed on his chest and I caught the next several in my mouth. I kept slowly stroking his shaft while slowly licking the little bit of cum that still oozed from him. I continued to lightly suck his cock head keeping him on that edge of just enough stimulation to keep him on that pinnacle of pleasure. His body jerked and writhed as I did. I knew that between my hand and mouth I could keep him there for a while. My experience is that the best blowjobs are with a combination of handjob and blowjob.
I've fantasized and wondered about that quite often myself. I missed out on a lot of the innocent sexual exploration and experimentation that happens between prepubescent boys and boys going through puberty where they would stroke and suck each other's cocks. I know how wonderful my hard cock feels in my hand and I know how wonderful it is feeling the jerking and contracting of my cock when I cum, but I would love to experience what it feels like stroking another man's hard cock and feeling the sensations as he cums!!!
I can imagine. I think just touching another man's hard cock would send shivers up my spine and "tingles" to my cock!!!!
Literally in the hands of a guy who really knows how to edge a cock, a handjob from another man can be quite extraordinary. Especially if you're very new to exploring your gay desires, the handjob is a wonderful introduction to naked play with another guy, giving and receiving, especially simultaneously. The feeling of another man's cock in your hands is quite exhilarating, of what it feels like, the simultaneous softness and hardness to it, feeling actually different from your own cock (you're holding a cock but it's not yours, it's another guy's cock!!), and seeing the desire in his face as he holds your cock is ultra erotic. And making another man cum, seeing that jet of semen shooting out of his cock, because of what you did to it using your hand or hands, the feelings you gave it, will be one of the most extraordinary experiences of your life. You made another man cum. You! And the orgasm you'll have from the handjob he gave you will be one of the most powerful and satisfying ones you had ever experienced up until then. There's something about man-to-man that defies logic and is absolutely extraordinary! Maybe at a future get-together you and that guy or another guy would rub your cocks together, engage in what is called man-to-man frottage. The feeling of your cock against another man's cock is indescribable, and the out of this world extraordinary pleasure can only be understood from personally experiencing it. You can hold and stroke the cocks together using your hands, but the best is when you actually grind your cocks together, rhythmically grinding your pelvises together, your cocks rubbing on each other without using your hands, with perhaps your hands just on each other's hips or even holding each other's butt cheeks as you tightly grind together, breathing like you're in a marathon, excited beyond your wildest dreams. If you don't cum together in the most beautiful simultaneous man-to-man orgasm possible, one of you will cum very quickly after feeling the other guy's cum all over your cock, shooting their cum all over the other cock, both of you still grinding together but now completely and beautifully lubricated with each other semen, with a feeling and smell utterly intoxicating and very manly and erotic. OMG, it's heaven! Indeed, more than likely mutual cocksucking, and possibly more, will be in your future. It's a natural progression, and 100% natural and normal. But touching another man's cock with your hand is the beautiful beginning.
Although I never given or received a hand job from a guy, I would think that if I did give or receive one it would only lead to oral
I'm pretty sure that any time I tried to give a guy a hand job, I wound up giving him a blow job. My brain goes, "Why use your hand to get him off when it's better to use your mouth to get him off?"
If you're sitting there slowly stroking someone's nice, hard, beautiful cock how could you not just lean over and slide your mouth down on it????
I am at 100% conversion rate on handjobs to oral. If you are anything like me and all the men I have been with, you will find it impossible to be anywhere near a hard cock without sucking on it.
As someone who has recently discovered/embraced his bisexuality, I have amazed at how much better men are at this than women. The first sexual thing I did with a guy was us giving each other handjobs and we both exploded within a minute, never even got the chance to get to oral. All I could think was that’s what I’ve been missing for the last 20 years of messing around with women. Although I’m identifying as bi for now, I’m not sure I can see myself going back to women. Starting to find myself actively turned off by them which I never thought would happen.
