Should I be doing this?

I'm 55. I have a friend in his 40s who has a very attractive wife. He knows I fancy her and he likes the idea of other guys lusting after her. When we were drinking at his house one evening, and his wife was out, he decided to show me some photos of his kit car. Ive seen it plenty of times and there was no need, but I went along with it as he is very proud of it. I soon realised his motive. He had the pics on his TV on a sim card. We went through the car pics and then surprise surprise there just happened to be some of his wife on the beach in her bikini. I didnt complain as she is very attractive. Then, they became topless. I asked him if he was OK with me seeing them and he said yes, as he knows I like her, and frankly, he enjoys it. I could see he was getting horny and aroused, and, so was I. He was asking me to comment about her body and at first I was a bit uncomfortable with it but I said a few remarks about her, the usual blokey stuff, which he clearly enjoyed. He asked if I would like to see more and I said yes, and the next set was of her naked in their hotel room, in various poses. I asked him if she would be OK with it and he assured me she would be. But I suppose he would say that wouldn't he? By this time he was very aroused which was obvious as he was wearing joggers. I was also in a similar state, but my jeans were hiding it! He then admitted that he was rock hard and the fact I could see his wife naked was driving him wild. I looked across and he was rubbing his dick through his joggers! He stopped straight away and apologised. He seemed to sober up at that point and apologised saying I must think he's a pervert, and switched off the TV. To be honest, I was quite enjoying it by that time and told him so. I also told him I was very turned on by the pictures and also the sight of him so hard and aroused. He didn't need telling twice. He put the pictures back on and asked me how hard I was. I showed him the bulge in my jeans He told me he loved the thought of me masturbating over her. I began to rub my cock through my jeans and he was groaning and doing the same. After a short time he had got his cock out and was stroking, and it wasn't long before we were both sitting there on his living room chairs, wanking over his wife. To cut a very long story a bit shorter, as you get the picture by now, we have repeated this many times since, but after a few times there is no awkward introduction, and we get naked completely. Then one time he said "Just imagine if Carol (name changed) came home and caught us at it! Looking at her pics and wanking each other!" But we aren't wanking each other I said. But we could, he replied. I found the idea so horny I just sat back, put my arms behind my head and said, "Go on then, wank it! and so he did. So now here we are, regularly meeting up and wanking each other off over his wife. Is this a bad thing?

 

It's not a bad thing at all..It is a very good thing, you lucky lucky fella.

 

He wants to persuade her to join us now!

 

Who doesn't love when other men get turned on by your wife/gf?

 

The ethics of it depend on how the wife would feel. If she'd feel violated to find out your friend as letting you jerk off to the photos, yeeeeeah... I hate to say it but it's not the best thing to be doing. That said, as far as violative sexual practices, it's also not the worst thing you could be doing. It's also arguable the true wongdoing is on the part of your friend for seducing you with the photos compared to you having a natural response to sexual stimulus.

That all said, I'm not going to indict you as a villain. For one thing, I've done the almost exact same thing. When I was 21, one of my best friends showed me nude photos of his girlfriend (who was also my friend) and we both jerked off to them. It just so happened that the girlfriend didn't mind and all three of us began masturbating together. Even inviting my girlfriend to join us. So it was fine in the end.

The only difference in my case is the nude photos were posted online to a message board similar to this. So the girlfriend was already intending for other people to see them. But that doesn't mean she'd have wanted a friend she knew jerking off to them. So, those first couple times I did it, I was about as culpable as what you've been doing.

I dunno. Do I think it's totally fine? No. But none of us are our best selves when horny. So it's hard for me to judge you as a bad person at your core for this.

 

I believe if your wife or you partner know it , there is no problem , but without their permission it is a little gilt.

 

Sounds like a good time to me.

 

It's a similar story of mine. So nope. I see nothing wrong with it

 

Let us know when it gets to BJs

 

Sounds good to me

 

Not a thing wrong with that

 

Please tell me more!

 

Correct. I have a steady girlfriend and I want to take some nude shots of her. She's up for it, but I just know what will happen. We'll be wanking off over her as well. I would feel guilty but the idea is just so horny. God knows what she would think if she knew what I get up to. Trouble is I just love it so much I cant stop. I have never had such intense orgasms in my life. Afterwards I feel high and lightheaded. Never experienced that before.

 

He and I are both nudists and it was pretty normal that he would stop by on his way home from work and we would sit in my garage/mancave and chat over a cold drink. Watch whatever was on TV. Our talks were sometimes sexual in nature about how our wives used to do this or that but no longer do much of anything. I noticed how he would fluff himself at times to the edge of getting hard. Just firm. It got me curious about things and I was enjoying my thoughts. I decided one day to have porn on the TV. So when he came by I'd see what husband next reaction would be. As suspected he got hard and fluffing more then the norm. I suggested he feel free to give himself a release if needed. He hesitated for a bit, so I started to fondle my ownself. He started pulling one off and blew his load. I couldn't hold back and did the same. Long story short. Slowly after that, things progressed.