The Joy of Sucking Cock

If I could only do oral with men I am totally happy. As I get older I prefer oral

 

do you find that being in 69 brings out your competitive nature? Each time I've done it, in my head, I'm like I want to make him cum before I do!

 

Not really, I like to take my time and spend a good 30-40 minutes orally worshiping his cock and balls to ensure he provides me with a sizable load of cum to swallow.

 

I've been with guys where sucking each other off has been a bit of a competition, i.e., talking shit about "I can make you cum first!" and responses like, "Bring it on!" and now we're not only trying to make each other cum first, we're trying to out-suck each other, i.e., who can go deep, who can stay down there the longest, stuff like that. Like thepapasmuph said, I used to get all in my head about making him cum first and the refractory period kills him, and he never finishes me, or he makes me cum first and now I gotta dig down deep and ignore the refractory period so I can finish him.

Then I considered how guys just seem to be "naturally competitive;" I laughed about it when it crossed my mind - and a guy had bet me that he could make me cum first... and I made him cum in about two minutes and he was "salty" about losing the bet and... when did this get to be a competition? Is it a problem or something to be concerned about? I put it out of my head because when it comes to sucking dick, whatever's going to happen is going to happen - sooner, later, not at all, don't think about it and just stay in the moment. Don't "talk shit" - let your cocksucking do the talking and, besides, the whole purpose of this is to make each other cum... isn't it? Very much a part of that joy of sucking cock?

 

Sure generally the point is fun...and lots of it! But sometimes it's fun to think of ways to shake things up a bit and try something weird. Granted competitive 69 is not for everyone but I'm sure there is more than one person in the world that would be into it.

 

Lmao I would probably lose and cum pretty fast

 

I'd agree; otherwise, sucking cock would be boring... and we can't have that.

 

Dam I would love to 69 with a guy and he put me on the bottom that away when he blows his nut he could jam his cock in my throat and make me swallow all of it

 

Yes... I've been on the top and bottom of that situation! Many of the guys I 69'd with prefer the side-by-side method because it's more comfortable; I used to love being on top... until my knees got old.

 

Side-by-side is by far the more comfortable position and allows both guys the ability to take a break in order to prolong the enjoyment. There are several places I like to explore to provide the maximum enjoyment for both of us.