Bi/gay slut

Men who are bi or gay…do you consider yourself being a slut …when you use the word slut we attached it to women ….

but as I’m experiencing more and more mm encounters, I have minimum 3 - 4 mm weekly, sometimes I feel that’s not enough. As leaning gay and married gay guy I feel I want more and more …I am more aware that I’m flirting with guys that fit my needs more often than I should …

With support of my wife ..I do have open relationship with my wife and my gay lover as well.

thoughts !!! As I’m navigating more of my gay side …

 

Hadn’t really thought about it but I am more likely to say yes to an encounter than no, I suppose I am a slut.

 

I used to be one when I was younger; it took me a lot of years to admit that, yeah, back then, I was definitely a slut and a huge cock whore. My protege calls me a nasty critter and I tell him, "You have no idea..." I got myself under better control as I got older but I'm still pretty slutty when I want to be.

 

If youre going to do it, you might as well do it with gusto and make the best of it. Boring sex isn't worth the trouble.

 

Ya know? Early on, I felt that if I was willing to throw the rulebook out the window and I could get into deep, deep trouble for doing what I was doing with guys, well, if I was going to get in trouble for it, I might as well do it! And I did... a lot. One day (and as an adult), I'd just finished having oral sex with the fourth guy of the day and with four loads of cum rumbling in my stomach, only then did I really question my slutty behavior from the beginning to that point in time. It was troublesome to really look at my sexual behaviors and, fuck, not only was a I slut and cock whore, I still was. Now it was about accepting the truth about myself and the truth can be a bitter pill to swallow (and like some cum I've swallowed), I had to; otherwise, I wouldn't have been okay with myself and might've gotten it in my head to stop doing what I was doing.

And I wasn't going to do that.

 

Yes, men are much sluttier than most women because we're horny all the time. I wasn't being slutty with women; it was men that I was slutty with. Once I got a taste of cock at age 36, I was hooked. What really made me a cock slut was getting that first taste of cum. I craved it and was sucking just about any cock I could get into my mouth. Sucking anywhere from eight to twelve guys off a week was common for me as my craving for cum was insatiable at the time. I took great pride in being a cock slut all those years even though it was highly risky doing so. Everyone was happy so it was a positive thing for me.

 

Most men back then had no idea that another guy was far better at sucking cock than most women. Getting over the stigma of allowing another man to suck their cock was more difficult for many. However, once they allowed another man to suck on their cock to realize how fabulously they sucked on their cock unlike most women they were unable to deny that men suck cock better than women and a real cock sucker like myself will always swallow!

 

That was - still is - the attraction for a lot of guys: It's long since been very well known that guys who suck dick will swallow the cum... and a lot of women ain't trying to hear any of that. Sometimes, it's not really about being better than a woman than it is doing the one thing that, again, a lot of women aren't of a mind to do. I have never, ever, told a guy not to cum in my mouth. Never. I have never set any conditions, asked for promises, or anything like that to be able to suck his dick except, um, lemme suck it, make you cum, swallow it and, if I really had fun doing that, I'm going to do it all over again.

Just know that, like you, I love having my dick sucked; I love guys who suck dick because they always swallow - and just like I'm about to do to you. The slut in me always wants to make it easy for a guy to pull his dick out for me; I'm not trying to be your boyfriend, asking you to fall in love, stuff like that and I am never, ever going to ask you what's in it for me: I want to suck your dick until you cum in my mouth. Now, does that sound like something you'd be interested in? If not, well, it never hurts to ask, does it? A shame... because you have no idea what you just passed on.

But if you ask a woman/your woman for a blowjob and she says to get the fuck out of her face with that bullshit, well, you know how to find me...

 

I consider myself a cum slut I love eating cum and having a guy fill my ass full of his hot thick cum .

 

you said well and soo true … all of men I have been with swallowed …

I guess I should overcome my guilt of being slut , enjoy endless opportunities and persue my needs as much as possible

 

Thanks for the assurance… looking to go full force in seeing endless opportunities as I’m 33 and started my bi journey in my mid 20s .. past 3 years have been more extream level of hookup and more gay leaning ….

 

To kind of bottom-line it, I'd rather be a slut than a frigid prude. I will not be on my death bed thinking, "I should have had sex with a man..." and when, now, it's too late.

 

Yes, that's exactly what you should do. You aren't the first guy who found himself to be a slut for cock and you won't be the last guy so don't sweat this and get out there and do what you gotta do - and have fun doing it.

 

Even though I have had oral sex with hundreds of guys over the last 33 years, I've never considered myself a slut by any means, because most of that happened in gay sex venues like bathhouses, gay sex clubs, back rooms and patios of gay bars, glory holes of video arcades, etc. The places were packed with guys doing all the same thing, enjoying getting each other off, multiple partners every time, with most of the guys not even to orgasm. But every time I went to one of these venues, I always felt like I actually wasn't having enough sex--which was weird, because I would usually suck 6-12 cocks each time. Maybe an outsider seeing this would've called me a slut. But I never felt it, and I still don't believe it. It really is bizarre, and a double standard for sure, because thinking of a girl doing that, I would certainly say she was a slut.

And I certainly haven't been getting together with a lot of guys in each other's homes in all this time, for oral or anal (the latter of which I've done so little), so I haven't even been a slut objectively speaking in that department. Overall, quite the opposite: I feel like I need to ramp up the amount of sex I have with guys, big time. All guys need to, I think. We should never be masturbating, not when there are so many horny guys out there. I certainly want to increase the amount of anal sex I have 100 fold, giving and receiving. Since finally losing my gay virginity 12 years ago, I've at most done anal play with maybe 6 guys. So shooting for fucking one guy a week, including repeat guys like fuck buddies, wouldn't be slutty behavior, would it? How often do married gay men fuck each other--way more than that I'm sure? If I had sex with 3 or 4 different guys every week, then maybe I would call myself a slut. God, do I ever want to be a slut! At 63, it is about time that I be a slut.

 

That's 'funny' because we were told to never masturbate because there were a lot of women out there...

 

it’s never too late ….
I felt guilt being too slutty ….but with support of my wife, my gay lover , few of my fuck buddies ..in addition this and various forum. I feel I shouldn’t stop and seek new opportunities. Only condition from wife is health is priority for all, protected sex.

 

so true !

 

I've seen guys get that very first experience and "instantly" turn into "sluts;" they can't get enough of sucking cock with other guys and there's this awareness that all men are fair game... if they don't mind and they want to be. One former newbie (who I had introduced) said, "Man, this shit is like those Lay's potato chips - you can't just suck one!" He then proceeded to show me how his skills had improved since we first did it... one week prior. Some guys realize the "shame" of what they're now doing or they know that they can't get enough of it and they try to shut it down and without understanding - and like us cocksuckers do - that you can't just turn this off; it hangs around, messing with your head until you break down and suck a dick and welp, since you did that one, you might as well keep doing them.

You can tell a guy who hasn't experienced this what it's like to wind up turning into a cock slut but that's you and not him - yet. It'll be hard for him to really grasp this since most guys will swear that they can control themselves... until their first oral sex experience with a guy, that is. And "Who fucking knew this could be so goddamned hot?"

We knew. We tried to tell you.

 

Yes you’re right …the feeling of being bi/gay slut is amazing …..knowing how much freely I feel inside wanting more and not being guilty…so relieved that I can enjoy experience naturally.
I have jus begun as gay slut…told my wife 2026 is defining year of taking gay journey to the next level and filling my bucket list of various diverse cocks ….

 

I am definitely a bi slut. In addition to my wife, fwb and fb I have about 5 other soccer moms and neighbors who I service regularly and three guys who call on me so they could suck and swallow. Two others call on me to top them. At 64 I stay in shape and love being a slut. My wife tacitly looks the other way. I meet my partners in various ways including referrals lol. Our maid of honor sometimes calls on me as we have been intimate for decades with my wife in threesomes which I also do depending on the situation. Always up for new adventures