Why do you choose top or bottom?

I've never been with a man, but in my fantasies about it, I'm pretty much bottom anal and oral. I also think it's a deep desire to experience what my wife feels. To feel a real cock thrusting deep inside my ass or mouth and taking all of his load in both cases is one of my deepest desires. I really can't say thinking of topping does anything for me, at least anally. I do love receiving a great blowjob, and a great blowjob is just that regardless of if I receive it from a man or a woman. But what's on my mind as I watch MMF, gay, or transgender porn while masturbating myself to orgasm is the thought of being on the receiving end of a nice cock and getting that reward of a hot load pumped inside me.

 

I love doing both and having the guy or guy’s cum inside my ass ( or I like to call my ass my man pussy ) . It feels so damn good feeling his cock throbbing and feeling his hot cum shooting in my ass . It a awesome feeling and you might like it I was hooked the first time I had a guy fuck my man pussy and he came inside of my man pussy .

 

I remember the first time a guy asked if he could fuck my pussy... and I looked at him like he had lost his mind.

"My what?" I had asked him and deliberately cupping my dick and balls.

"I want to fuck your pussy good," he said.

I almost hurt myself laughing. He didn't like the fact that I was laughing and wouldn't stop laughing.

 

HF is the perfect place to ask questions. No need to be shy about it.
So, my answer would be bottom. The only m/m sex I have had was eons ago… relatively frequent mutual oral with my neighbor best buddy. Never gave a second thought about topping or bottoming. That would be too “gay“. Ha Ha. But here we were sucking off each other. Go figure. Years ago early in our relationship, I confessed to my wife about my SB. at first she was taken aback, But then the idea started to grow on her, To the point that we would occasionally watch Gay/bi/MMF porn. She would ask questions like would I do this or that? Most of the time my answers were in the affirmative. We ended up getting into anal for the both of us….. she loved me in her butt, and I loved her finger or a small toy in mine during a BJ. I eventually ended up purchasing a nice sized realistic looking strap on. She really took to the role of being more dominant. She would “force“ me to suck it, with comments like “I’ll bet your friends cock was better”, and she would say the same thing while she was pegging me. One comment that always got me off was when she would say she was going to come in me! That always did the trick!
So LLS, bottom only for me. I have no desire for another guys ass. That was what my wife’s tight little butt was for. All of these years later, and given the opportunity, I would suck and swallow and bottom with the right guy. But no topping. Sorry…..JMHO

 

I'd pick bottom, then version. I enjoy being used to pleasure my partner. A dildo or butt plug in my ass is out of this world! I dream of being on my back, legs spread & pulled back with a cock sliding in & out me...better if I also had one in my mouth...maybe having the switching places...having one cum in my mouth, one in my ass. I've loved sucking cock since bj #1. Loved swallowing cum since first guy came in my mouth. But I also like a tight pussy...so would top a guy for sure.

 

are Tonka toys OK?

 

You mean a dildo bright yellow & indestructible, fun to play with indoors or out? Sure!

 

yeah.. that's it!!


in Autumn, 2024 I was sent to a urologist because - though I drank a lot of liquids and dumped 3-4 quarts of water daily - I rarely felt an urge to urinate.. by the time I DID, it was better for all within my immediate circle if they scattered as if I'd just relayed a "Broken Arrow" from my Company Commander (I was an RTO with 101st Airborne in 'Nam).. There's not enough latrines on airliners anymore.. 67% were removed after 'Frequent Flyer' program started in 1980s and airlines soon discovered too many sears were occupied by non-paying passengers.. solution? remove most restrooms, shrink seat size and add a shitload more of them..

but I digress..

so as luck would have it, my urologist group only had openings for their sole female doctor.. No problem.. I had a biopsy that - even though I opted to have some nitrous oxide - hurt like hell.. AND it was noisy shoving all that stuff up my ass..

When procedure was done I guess I was a bit loopy and asked her "how many kids do you have?"

"What makes you think I have kids?" she said..

"I thought you were hiding their Christmas presents in there!"

(I don't know that it was as funny for her as I thought it to be!)

 

As I've been reading this thread, multiple thoughts come to mind, I feel being in the moment would be important. The only cock I sucked asked to fuck after it was over and I said no.....maybe a shower together cleaning and stroking cocks would have led somewhere....work up to rimming and some fingerplay, I might have tried it then (in my 30s I would want to top) because for me anal play was new and painful.I could bottom now after learning to enjoy fucking myself with 8.5 inches sliding hard in and out of my ass until my body gave out...I love it now (by myself) and wonder if a man (or a woman) could fuck me as hard as I do myself...my legs are up on the desk as I slam my dildo hard as I can into my ass.I would loved to be pegged by a women I loved to fuck, to bottom for her would be perfect for me. Actually, a threesome with her and the guy I sucked makes me wonder where that would go, I think I would really be open to where that would go....cocks to suck, pussy, some rimming....yeah I think that would go far....

 

I've spent many afternoons/evenings enjoying MFM threesomes with my boyfriend and either of our wives as the women would fuck my ass while I sucked his cock. Pure heaven to me. Yes, he fucked me good and dumped his second load deep inside my ass while one of the wives were sucking my cock.

 

I am bottom because it feels amazing rubbing my prostrate and feeling him in my guts

 

I COMPLETELY understand and identify with you .... I KNOW that I was born a natural bottom .... Even after being married and engaging in heterosexual sex with my spouse, I have always known that my true sexual destiny would be assuming the position and being penetrated by an Alpha male.... I knew this even before my first such experience ever occurred .... I have NEVER even thought about topping another male .... Even the thought of it seems foreign to me .... Half my lifetime had passed before that first encounter took place when I submitted to a man .... Yes, I was filled with fear and anxiety, BUT nature seemed to take control as I quivered inside with excitement, gladly falling into what is generally considered the feminine role from the moment he exposed his rigid manhood, placed his hands firmly on my shoulders and guided me to my knees.... I felt my body naturally cooperating ....Assuming every position he guided me into....Culminating with being placed on all 4's with his hands firmly grasping my shoulders as he penetrated me .... Of course there was discomfort, but he explained to me that he knew I instinctively wanted to be a good bitch for him and he would break me in the proper way .... By third or fourth time, I literally could hardly wait for him to place me in that receiving position and hear him say: "Aren't you glad I knew what you really needed ?" ....

 

Sir, you paint an awesome picture.