I am wondering… What does it make you feel like wanting to fuck someone else besides your partner? Is it ovulation? Is it alcohol? Is it work trips? Big dick? Shaved pussy? Someone elses sexual experiences? What makes you desire someone elses sex?
It can be literally anything. A look. A smile. A handshake. It's feeling the attraction and not ignoring it. It could be a kind word; a hug; a funny joke. I know that I can't pick anything in particular...
First thing that catches my attention is a woman's hips, ass and/or thighs but the sexual attraction kicks in when I notice that she enjoyed my eye contact as much as I did hers.
Since it’s about sexual attraction, the obvious first thing is her appearance Her hair, eyes, mouth, face, makeup, the way she dresses, her chest (nothing to do with size), and whether she smokes or not. Also piercings - how many and locations. Next is the voice and the way she talks And the attitude, the way she is as a person I saw a model kind of woman but her attitude and mentality made me think I didn’t want to have sex with her. But maybe getting to know her could have changed my opinion. The last two factors could override certain visual aspects. Or truly break it.
I read or heard somewhere that all women are beautiful... until they open their mouth. I had the misfortune of meeting a lot of women who were like this, not to mention a lot of guys, too. It drove home the lesson that just because it looks good doesn't mean that it is good.