i will get marry in december 2005 tell me what precautions i have to take i mean basic things i need to do.
make sure this is really the person you want to spend the rest of your life with. is she? then, good! go for it! and don't let your parents get TOO involved. the wedding is for you and her, not for anyone else. you are inviting people to come witness it, but you are not having the ceremony for their benefit. do not spend too much money on the wedding, the rings, the outfits, etc. focus more on your relationship. the wedding is one day. the marriage is (supposed to be) a lifetime. focus on the lives you two will lead together, not the ceremony. it should be fun for you guys and you should have a good time, whatever it is you choose to do, but i know a few couples who have blown their whole wad of cash on the ceremony and the rings, then ended up having problems in their marriages due to money. money problems can sometimes tear a couple apart. make sure you have good communication skills with your fiancee'. it's very important. you may love each other so much, but if you don't have good communication skills, it could hurt your relationship. if you have problems like that, take care of them BEFORE you tie the knot. what kind of ceremony are you planning? traditional? eloping? county courthouse? simple, outside kinda deal? formal? casual? do you want to have a bachelor party? does she want a bachelorette party? back in the day, it used to be the bride's family who would traditionally take care of the wedding...but sometimes a family can be really domineering and turn the whole thing into something the couple doesn't even want. make sure you guys can plan the ceremony you two want, together. and above all, your relationship with your fiancee and wife-to-be is the most important thing. don't let that get lost in the chaos of wedding planning.
