I have a problem

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Tune_man420, Mar 23, 2005.

  1. Tune_man420

    Tune_man420 Member

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    me and my ex broke up but remained friends and now we are thinking of getting back together. This is the second time this has happened Both times she was afraid of commitment and she broke it off when she realized she loved me, but do you think it would be wise to go back out with her or not? I hate love not even a rocket scientist could explain this shit.
     
  2. guitarslinger

    guitarslinger Schwa

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    Dont do it man, it hardly ever works the second or third time around. Be friends and be happy you two can still be that.
     
  3. Tune_man420

    Tune_man420 Member

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    that's just it we can't just be friends we always end up doing stuff. I don't know it is just wierd when ever we talk or hang out we seem to fall right back in love again.
     
  4. peacefuljeffrey

    peacefuljeffrey Senior Member

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    I feel that there comes a time in a relationship like you described when the man has to say, "Stop fuckin' dicking around with me!"

    WTF, man?! What the fuck is up with a girl who STOPS herself when she realizes she LOVES you, and runs away?!

    That's so fuckin' ass-backward!

    I'd be like, "Look, if you love me, then fuckin' LOVE me, but don't fucking waste my time. I'm outta here. If you figure out how to LOVE, give me a call, but I don't wanna fuckin' hear from you unless you're ready to be with me."

    You owe it to yourself to not be her fucking YO-YO. And that's exactly how she's playing you. If she is not ready to be your girlfriend and be in love with you and keep it going, she owes it to you to be straight-up about it, and to let you go on with your life and look for someone who will love you and NOT run away because she's "afraid of commitment."

    I thought it was guys who were supposed to pull that shit. :$


    -Jeffrey
     
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