so I have been talking to this guy for a few weeks or so, the other day he told me that he wants to be with me (after we just had an amazing morning full of sex), and when he thinks about me he thinks about the future and that scares him, he said that hes not used to being with someone like me (most of his ex girlfriends have been strippers), anyways the past few days he has not answered any calls and I dont get it why he would say things like that, is it thats hes really scared about us and the future that we may have together or all he wants is good sex and he will return the calls when he wants it again. any insight would be greatly appreciated I just dont know what I sould do
He may have said something in the heat of the moment that he kind of regrets now. Many guys are afraid of commitment.... or he could have just gone out of town or something. I'd say the best thing to do is to lay low and not call him again. I don't think being persistent will help.
Move on and find someone else who deserves you, all you have to offer and truly wants to make a life with you. This guy is not worth any more of your time.
Let me speak of experience. Back in the day I had some amazing sex with one girl. After I told her that I wanted to be together for a while. Then I realized it was just the lust for sex speaking. We broke it off about three days later. This guy isn't worth your time. Trust me. I think the only reason he said that was so that he could keep you around. I really hope I'm not being too blunt.
