is there any way to decrease a sex drive?

this is just a random question that i need some advice on...can anyone help me?

 

I doubt it, would be handy though

 

i heard birth control can decrease a sex drive, especially the depot shot.. i am on depot and mine has decreased, it sucks but it doesnt suck as much as if i were to get pregnant right now.

 

marijuana+alcohol
a very fun replacement and it works!

 

i dont like weed...and i really dont drink...but when i do drink i dont want any...

 

see the thing is is that i have a higher one that what my husband does and i cant help it and when i dont get sex i get grouchy and moody and i know that he hates that...i just dont know what to do...

 

Anti depressents can have that effect

 

I suggest, taking matters into your own hands.....if you know what i mean.

i'm sure the guys know, that 15-30 minutes of clarity immediatly after...

 

i always heard marijuana makes people horny... so is it the mix of that and alcohol that make you less horny? or was i just hearing wrong

 

masturbate in front of him, i bet that'll get him going. if not tie his ass to the bed and ride him anyway. he might not be horny but his little friend will act differently. i think

 

I used to be the same way. I had an overcharged sex drive compared to my husband. At first, I thought it was because he was the only person I had ever had sex with, and I was 18 at the time I lost my virginity to him, so I figured I was just making up for "lost time" so-to-speak. *lol*

But as time went on, I STILL wanted it constantly. My husband had no problem with that, but, get this, at times he said he just wanted to spend time with me, and not always have to have sex. Hello?! Isn't it usually the other way around?

Anyway, things changed. After we had our first son, my libido was still higher than a kite, and I even wanted to have sex the day after I gave birth! We didn't, but a week later I seduced my husband even though I wasn't supposed to be doing that yet, and I ended up barely being able to walk and getting a severe infection in my episiotomy site because it tore. Can we say OUCH? Stupid me should have listened to my doctor, but I know everything, right? And it hurt so dang bad when we were doing it, why I even wanted to keep on with it is beyond me. Maybe it's like that Red Hot Chili Pepper's song, Aeroplane, when Anthony sings "I like pleasure spiked with pain". *lol*

Anyway, as time wore on, the demands of taking care of a newborn, the breastfeeding seemingly nonstop, the getting up two and three times during the night, the fatigue, and the post-partum depression, my libido started to take a dive. Then, three and a half years later, I gave birth to a set of twins, and then my libido REALLY took a nose dive for a while. I was also on an anti-depressant for post-partum depression and post-traumatic stress syndrome, and it was completely taking every ounce of sexual feeling out of me. I hated it! I ended up weaning myself down on it, and not long after, I started feeling those old familiar feelings again. Not like I was wanting it every single day (although I must admit I seem to think about it) but I was more like myself again.

Don't tame that sexual energy girl, it's all you.

 

yea my husband says the same thing..i dont want kids...just sex...and i dont want to tame it, i just want to come to a resolution with him...and i thought it was because he thought i was unattractive but it turns out its not that...he says he just too tired all the time and i understand that its just hard to take in ya know...i dont know what to do...