hey everyone this is star and i am a scorpio, which has some characteristics of jealousy, obsessiveness... I like this guy, i think of him as a friend, we never really got the chance to talk to each other just the two of us... He recently well it was mutual his and his girlfriend of i think a few years broke up.... Everytime i am with him or sit by him, i feel we have this connection to each other.... He isnt the type of guy who makes the first move, nor am i the girl who does........... I just dont know what i should do, i really really like him My spirituality on this occassion is really fucking (excuse the language) with my head... I dont know if this is the right forum for this but i wrote it anyways obviously... He is getting to the point of me where i am terribly obsessing i even get emotional hurt and depressed inside because of it.... Any advice will do thanxs for listening star
yah yah maybe i am using the friend as an excuse, because i want to be his lover.......... i wrote him an email about it........ i was over at his house last night with a few friends because one was moving away for a bit, and i think i left my glasses there and i wrote him the email about how i feel, and i will just feel awkward going there if my glasses are there u know? Oh maybe i am just being chilidish??? Sometimes i hate being a scorpio!
I say go out on a limb, sit him down at a nice coffee shop and say: "I like you". Then see what happens. You'll start to talk and you can both decide that you want to see each other. If everything doesn't go well - you can decide to be friends and just hang out at the mall, go to the movies, etc. The worse feeling in life is not saying anything and wishing you had. Yes, you have to leave yourself wide open for hurt. But you are also leaving yourself wide open for happiness. If you get rejected - it's not the end of the world. Just the opposite - it could be the start of your world, for you. Human emotions are very frail things - but you can learn to be more adventurous and give life a spicey flavour in everything you do. I say, "Go for it" and don't look back if it doesn't work out.
Yup.. I know the quiet shy type for I am myself and had similar experience on a couple of occasions, in both scenarios. I regret nothing was said, but 15 years or so later she did tell me and we got on well, ( but waiting that long aye? ). + on the other foot, I regret not opening my mouth to someone and asking if she fancied a kiss, ( just to see where it lead ). Go for it and ask if he fancies a kiss, if you both do then put his hand on your chest then take it from there. Some people need a push from time to time. ( I know I do still person to person ).
