How Do You Feel About Players???

How do you feel about players. Okay, let me clear this up for those who don't know what is a player! I think a player is a man who is not committed to no one person...period. He just goes through women, with no connection with them whatsoever; Treating women like a conquest in a game. He has no love or respect for women as a whole. So what are your thoughts on players???

 

How do I feel about them?? I think they are men who are committment phobic or they feel they haven't gotten enough love and nurture in their lives from their mothers and even fathers or have been taught that this is the way to be a 'man'.

I don't feel any real way about them...I just stay away from them. If they try to kick game to me they usually end up giving up anyway, because I don't rush or move fast at all. The last thing they are about is longterm!!!

 

They should be castrated...

Nah, just kidding...maybe we should just send them to an island where all the slutty women will go to too....that way they don't run into those people who DO want committment *grins*

 

I don't see any purpose in it.

 

If the woman/man dosnt know that there being used then they should die a horrible horrible death....
but if they do know, no ones geting hurt so no problem

 

players that promise women things they arent gonna give them (like relationships etc) are bastards


but if a guy goes up to women and tells them from the get go that they are just sex to him its up to the woman to decide whether to do it or not

 

it all depends. If they make it clear they are not looking for a relationship, then it's just a lifestyle that I don't agree with.

If they make it out to be like they will commit and then never do, breaking heart after heart, then I think it's totally fucked up and wrong. There are plenty of women out there who don't want a relationsip either.

I wonder why in a society so focused on not forcing religion on people, why sex is viewed as "bad" and "taboo". It's a part of human nature and unless you're some hardcore Christian, I don't see what the big deal is if you have sex with 20 people as long as you protect yourself and be honest with your partner.

 

EXACTLY, it's funny around where I live it makes a man a pimp to have sex with 20 girls and it makes a girl a whore to have sex with 20 guys............... i think you are only a whore if you don't care about your body and you have sex for the wrong reasons (ex, to get money, for attention, to trap someone into a relationship)
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I had a guy yell at me from across a mall parking lot a few weeks ago " hey girl! come over here and holla at a playa for a minute!" I didn't even know what to say to that

 

Hey as long as they are clear about what their real intentions are... That their up front.. Fine.. To Each His own.. But since most are clear about what they want.. There pathetic

 

elle, I would have walked over thier and started screaming something random.

he did say "hollar" at him , right

 

First of all I would like to state that women are Jah's greatest gift to man and there had never been a more beatiful peice of artwork than the female body, and all of us should thank him everyday for that greatest of gifts. Having said that I think that any man you disrespects women has a low self-esteem! They dont deserve the right to live.

I do like dancerannies idea of sending em to a island with all the sluts.

I agree with you also FunkyPhresh, I hate people with double standards!

 

Lol

 

I have no room for that type of person in my life.

 

I'm the girl who falls in love with the player who sweet talks me...So I do not like players because I trust everyone and never suspect a guy of playing me and players end up hurting me...bad.

 

what gets me is all the girls out there willing to roll over for them (the players). One quote from a guy i know who can pick women left and right goes like this - "well, once i realised that all the women were stupid, it just got easier". Keep that one in mind next time some rico suave fuck up starts hitting on you. But i suppose there are girls who like the macho bs . I guess i dont have much respect for the women that like to get played. that kinda interaction just bugs the hell out of me.

 

The guy who played me seemed to be a really nice, really hippy guy...He wasn't macho or anything, just seemed really nice and genuine. I think it was out of his character to play someone, and it hurt bad. Don't not have respect for girls who get played, I just genuinely trust people...

 

well with my boyfriend and I.. he's allowed to kiss only the same sex (guys) and with me I can only kiss girls... i feel more comfortable with that then him kissing ther opposite sex I'm not sure why... maybe because he's straight and so am I...

I think that with players i think their boyfriend/girlfriend should know about it... if they decided it was ok for their relationship then surer go ahead but doing it behind their backs without them knowing is bullshit and hurtful.

 

hello capricorn. i wasnt responding to your post directly, i was more thinking of my old roommate who seemed to think that the players were the true "men" in town. which really irked me because i had some feelings for her at the time... so its not the ones that get tricked that i dislike - its the ones that like to play along... (and torture ME goddamit!)