Men and sex something I will never understand

My boyfriend and I hadn't had sex for 8 days and then we do it and he can't cum. So later I gave him oral and we went to bed. No thanks, no love to me, etc. I don't understand what the fuck is going on in his brain!!!!!!!!!! I feel like shit because I talked to him and he did fucking nothing for me. I feel used especially because I hate going down on him.

 

That seems to be a common thing that guys do since this has happened to all of my friends.

My boyfriend has many other flaws and does lots of insenstive things to me, but he always goes down on me anytime I want... and vice versa.

It sucks that he did that to you though. Put your foot down and tell him how you feel. These things should be reciprocated.

 

Why do you hate going down on him?

 

I don't "like" going down on my boyfriend either exactly. It is really quite uncomfortable sometimes, especially if you have a small mouth like I do. Kinda hurts the throat. But I, in a way, like doing it because it makes him happy and that makes me happy.

 

Most of the time, when a guy can't ejaculate and he as before it's because of some psychological issue... is he under a lot of stress lately? Is your guys' relationship currently under some strain? Chances are it's not you, he's just so distracted by something else in his life that he's too stupid to appreciate you (does he know that you don't like going down on him? That can make some guys enjoy it a lot less too)

 

So why are you with him?

Why is it that so many women are with such worthless, shitty, inconsiderate schmucks, and I continue to wait for the right woman, and I'm a considerate, affectionate, generous, funny, smart, employed, interesting man?

For the record, you'd get as good as I got and more. I'd never leave a woman without some especially after she did me good. That's just fuckin' unacceptable.

Ditch the loser. Explain to him how this makes him a shitty lover. THAT will get to him. Tell him about how many other men would do FAR better than him in bed.

-Jeffrey

 

I hate going down on him because I have tmj and my jaw starts to hurt. Yes our relationship has been under strain lately but I like making him happy. Jeff if I tell him he is a shitty lover things will just get worse.

 

yummy
i love going down on women
and recieving as well
*grins*
To be honest, Ive only received this from a small handfull of women, and only one of them could do it right.... I do well though, inducing multiple climaxs with gals who don't have trouble getting there anyway LoL.
Anyway it's been too long for me to even remember what a woman feels like.

 

Coz we are players...
We never lose....

 

Wow! Answers everything for me.

 

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I'm the right woman for you Jeffrey. I wouldn't disrespect you or allow you to disrespect me. I wouldn't give you any fellatio even if you tied a burrito to it. I'm perfect for you.

 

will u tie a burrito to my leg bell? organic vegetarian thanks
wow this burritu tastes mysterious
like a toe

 

what i hate even more than being single is hearing about guys who don't know a good thing when they've got it. on the flip side, just because he didn't go down on u isn't a reason to hate him. talk to the guy, let him know how u feel, we may be slightly dense at times, but it's a purely genetic thing, not always our fault, but usually if someone explains it to us (nice and slowly with clear syllables, and pictures and hand puppets if neccesay) then we usually get it. if not, then he's one of ure "worthless, shitty, inconsiderate schmucks" that my peace lovin brother up there mentioned. lol.

 

I never said I hate him.

 

I think he needs a good talking too..

That ain't no way to treat a lady...

 

I never cummed with my ex girlfriend. I don't consider it a problem. Sex is the fun part, not making a mess everywhere.

As for guys receiving and not giving, that's not a guy thing, that's a selfish person thing. Have a conversation; dump him; whatever. 'Sharing' is pretty much the definition of sex!

Or, why not get really aggressive with him and tell him you want your **** licked and get physical and push his head down onto you? If a girl did that to me, it would turn me on big time!

 

just dont do it. and see how he likes that.

it seems a common thing that after a while in the relationship the guy starts taking it all for granted. last guy i went out with, when it started he treated me like a princess it was more than i had ever been used to and then after like a month or so he hardly ever hugged me or anything affectionate at all. infact he would basically ignore me until he wanted something which made me feel pretty cheap, sleazy, worthless and lowered my self confidence quite considerably. then he dumped me and that was like another twist of the knife. thing was he never really intentionally went out of his way to be mean to me or anything he was just SO clueless of how he was using me that even when i confronted him about it he didnt understand and wouldnt face up to the fact that he had been mistreating me.

just dont let your situation get like mine was. it's not fun.

 

He is affectionate but when it comes to sex lately he hsa been kind of distant.

 

the wind says "he may be cheating"

the moon says "or not"