Soulmates?

Humanity as a race is going through a major transition at this time. This results in changes both physical, emotional and spiritual.

Often when we are making these changes, we attract someone to help us through this phase of our experience here. This person the Transition Person.

Usually this person does not remain in our lives, or live up to fantasies we may have created about them, but they do serve a purpose in helping us move on and into a new space.

The Transition Person can be a friend, lover, or both.

Here is an example...You are in a bad marriage or relationship. You know you need to move on, but as with most people you don't want to move forward until someone new has come into your life. Many people hate living alone. [Remember that in most separations - one partner has found someone new while the other is mortally wounded!]

Enter the Transition Person. That person is someone you have attracted to help you move on. Now comes the sticky part...Often you think you have attracted that person as your life long soul mate. Wrong! Usually that is not the case. That person lives out whatever karma they have to help you move on...then moves out of your life. Your soul is confused. But you have to understand their role in your life and accept it - allowing time for your soul to heal from the issues of both relationships.

Always keep this in mind when dealing with any relationship - either both of you want the relationship - or you don't! That's it. If one of you is ambivalent - it will end. Don't push the energies.

If you are waiting for the Transition Person to return - Give it up!! If that person was supposed to be in your life they would be there! That's it! No excuses today! Look at your relationship!

You and your partner or ex-partner are either on the 'same page' or you are not!

The Transition Person can also be there to help you when you relocate as your soul tells you a move is needed. Most people move to places where they know other people, if moving alone. The Transition Person can be that person, but may move out of your life after helping you relocate. The karma is over. You are on your own. That is what this game is about anyway!

We all attract Transition People at one time or another. They just seem to show up in our lives as if by synchronicity. With this person - watch your heart and do not fall in love easily. Most likely you will get hurt.

In Metaphysics the Transition Person is the one who helps you 'wake up' to the greater reality of the universe - and to healing whatever issues you have been dealing with. This too is a person you can get very friendly with...but beware ...do not fall in love as now you are dealing not just be 3D stuff but with spiritual as well. Falling in love with a metaphysical partner then loosing them, can be the most destructive of all especially as you are building a new YOU. You can become way to co-depending on Transitional People at that time - as healers, teachers, authors, etc. I have learned how quickly people in this field become lovers - which has also been my own experience. We meet - begin a transition - spend time together - quickly feel we are in love. As metaphysics is an ongoing journey into awareness - one partner soon moves on. Metaphysical people are free spirits who experience many people, places, and things.As humans we are not created to be monogamous. That is a social condition - but there are variations on all themes - as karmic bonds can create long relationships.

If you are ready to make change in your life...look for the Transition Person you will now bring in for you to experience with. They can be fun. You really can enjoy the time if you don't allow yourself to get too co-dependent on them and allow them to move on when one or both of you are ready.

Honor what you and the Transition Person have shared, then move on.

This is Spring - a time of transition and

graduation to things that will help your soul grow.

Your Transition Person may be about to knock on your door.

Please be there to open it, and don't be afraid.


Go with the flow....of creation....your creation! Trust it!

THE INTERIM LOVER
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You wish to end a bad relationship with a spouse / lover. You have put up with all sorts of abuse and unhappiness but have stayed with that person because: you were afraid to be alone
felt comfortable enough to stick it out
couldn't imagine --or feel worthy of--a good partner
financial or family obligations
kept saying you would leave but didn't have the guts to do it!
<LI>you were waiting for another person to come along first

Enter the Interim Lover! You sense the karma between you the moment you meet and a strong attraction. They have everything your partner lacks and most of all understands you - you are on the same frequency.

The connection is strong. You think about this person constantly - and they feel the connection - as if you tune into each other's thoughts. You see soul connection! You connect with each other's thoughts and energies.

Sometimes this can become an obsessive pattern.

You call, email, make plans, laugh, share your lives, have great sex!

You finally leave your first relationship as it no longer works for a 'happily ever after' with the new partner. With all of the "perfect ingredients" you think nothing but blissful thoughts. You never stop to think that the universe has brought this person into your life just to help you get away from the first partner.

Suddenly the "bubble is burst"! The fantasy stops. Reality Check.

Obsession - High maintenance as you try everything you can to get the energies back to where they were. Perhaps the partner disappoints you and decides to move in another direction. Perhaps the partner said they would leave their partner for you - then decides that they cannot leave or once they have left - being alone and free is more suited to their needs than being with you.

You are crushed! You question what went wrong and why. You must now come to an understanding as to why that person came into your life in the first place - how they helped you grow, experience, and move forward - and that no one is here to bring you the happiness you must find for yourself on your 3D journey into awareness.

You must now seek your personal power and continue the journey that was given to you when you first attracted the Interim Lover. How have you grown from the experience? Are you upset because you did not get what you want or expected? How long did you really feel the Interim Lover could maintain this experience while dealing with their own issues? Can you get past the anger? Doesn't everybody after a period of time?

After a bad relationship ends you must find out who you have become and what you have learned. You are not the same person you were when you first started the initial relationship. You have grown in both relationships and reality now takes on a new frequency for you.

If you feel you need professional help from a therapist -seek this out. Spiritual counselors can also give guidance - as can a good psychic reading. Friends and family may help - if you are willing to listen.

You wonder about the fantasy about eternal love and romance and whether it will ever find you.

You may feel alone and depressed. This is better than giving your personal power away.

Please do not return to your original partner in desperation or out of fear of being alone. Being alone is a time of growth. You do not have to feel lonely. This is your journey - use it wisely.

The meeting of two personalities is like the contact of two chemical substances: if there is any reaction, both are transformed. ​

[size=-1]Carl Jung (1875 - 1961)​

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interesting...

 

That is all so very....................... right on .................now if we were not HUMAN ... arrr how this gets in the way

 

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be love

 

But are we not constantly in transition, therefore always needed a different transition person, therefore never truely falling in love and staying with one person?

I do believe that people come and go from our lives at the points where we need them the most, or they need us. But your transition person doesn't always have to be a lover. It could be anyone who helps you through a tough time. When I think of that I think of a good friend. We don't see each other much any more, but she was there for me when I needed her insight and wisdom. Then just as quickly as she came into my life, she left. But there was no risk of me falling in love with her.

 

I beleive it to a certain extent .. there is too much grey area .. and learning to see beyond it when applicable is hard to do ... but Hmmm my human side says I'd rather be celibate than do the inbetween learning ...awakening thingy ...I tried that in the past ... I think I will do all I can do til they throw me out ...lol .. aka doormat K ... joking .. I think sometimes when we see or meet someone when we are involved .. it could also simply be a test of your love .. loyalty .. and ultimate choice to rise above insecurities and give it your all despite when the other is not ..easier said than done .. true ...but how often do we really listen to that "voice" that knows better .... ?........and how do we know if its the voice of reason or insecurity ...Is is possible to pass up Destiny due to all the illusions presented to us in this world or illusions that we may even present to ourselves becuase it looks tasty ? You can often just feel it in your heart ...if its right ...wrong .. or a dammed timing issue .. and I say go with that ... tick tock ...
Tricky tricky

 

this was some lovely thoughts, and I can totally relate to them and understand them. Sometimes I feel like I may be a transition person, and also I have had transition peoples in my life.

 

Our 1st date was Dec.13 2003, we're 13 years apart in age, she was 26 (13 * 2), I was 39 (13 * 3). Though we were together only 3 months, there was a Friday the 13th in there. When I asked her age she told me to guess, & I said "I bet I moved off Vanc. Isle (she was born there) before you were born", ( I moved when I was 13 years old). She asked when I moved, I said July 2, 77, she was born July 10, 77. My mom, Elna's birthday, July 13. My mom died the night of Mar. 20, at the age of 52 (13 * 4), Eileen was hit the morning of Mar. 19. Our moms both died from chronic alcoholism. That night the urge to find Eileen & befriend her came over me with such urgency that I knew I had to. The impulse to make sure I found her that night & do whatever I could to make sure we became friends was overwhelming, & unique. I'd never had anything come over me like that before. I refused to hit on her, being friends was too important. We both tried to hide our strong feelings. We'd only
spoken 6 times in 1 ½ years, each too shy to say how we felt, & both sure the other wouldn't be interested. The need to find her that night was something I wondered about a lot fterwards, & told her about it many times before her injury. Our time together was like we were on a mission to spend every second together. We both practically feared being apart. I told her many times that I'd enjoyed the short time we'd been together more than all 39 years before, & that if something happened tomorrow, like she decided to walk out, I would not regret a second of our time together. She was constantly worried I'd change my mind about her. If she didn't know where I was sometimes she'd panic, & it would take me half an hour to calm her down, she was so worried.. We both acted like we had no time to waste, & talked about how we could not imagine anything keeping us apart. We both assured each other practically daily that come what may we were going to do whatever it took to stay together, no matter what. So, although we both felt this incredible love we were sure nothing could tear apart, we both worried about something happening, & talked about it a lot. She said she'd never felt like she was at home before she moved in with me. I told her the day she moved in that every single thing was half hers, including the actual condo. & that I meant even if she moved out the next day. She said she would never take a thing, & was always giving me little gifts. We shared many synchronicities each day. It was a 90 day waking fantasy. We couldn't get enough of each other, & were working on how we could be together 24/7. I didn't sleep much at all for that 3 months. I constantly wrote her poems, 15 in 3 months, when I'd written 4 or 5 for my ex in 5 years. I've had more dreams with Eileen in them in 5 months than in 5 years with my ex. & the 1st one was about the end of the world, yet we were both content to lie on the grass & gaze into each others eyes as the Earth's atmosphere dissipated into space. She said I was like a mirror to her. We agreed on so many things, it was a challenge to find differences, & we spent a lot of time trying to find things we differed on. She likes liver & peas, I don't. I like spicy food. She's afraid of heights, I'm not. We tried to find more but that's all I recall. I must've asked her 100 questions the 1st month, as they came to me, where my ex & I differed. We agreed on every one. We both had fantasies we'd wanted to fulfill for many years, & we did. It was not like real life. It was too good. I think that's what worried us both. We'd hold each other & both cry some nights we were so insecure. I said yes without a pause when she proposed, I didn't have to think. & having a woman propose to me was something I'd hoped for all my life, so of course it was her that did it. We both used to get drunk at lunch time in grade 6. How many kids do you know that did that? There were a million things like that. We were both beyond each other's dream partner. The 1st night she stayed over, I had the best sleep I'd had in memory, which I needed since I didn't sleep much after that. We were both trying to outlove the other, discreetly, of course. She amazes me every day still. When she let me know her feelings were more than friendship, I was already ahead of my goal. Yet each day she'd do something else that made me love her more. Today it was sitting up in bed so that for the 1st time in 9 weeks I could hold her in my arms. We both constantly thought about what we could do & did whatever we could do for each other. & that was all we wanted to do. About 4 days after the accident, I opened the closet where all my climbing & hiking, snowshoeing gear is, which is always just a big pile, & it was all organized. That broke my heart. We were never angry at each other for more than half an hour, & then it was like nothing had happened the next moment. I pondered why none of my other ex's & I could not do that. She knew EXACTLY what made me happiest, cuz usually the same thing made her happiest. We talked with our eyes, or in perfect stereo many times a day. We'd say the same thing in the same words, at the same speed, same tone, at the exact same time, or a fraction of a second off. At 1st it bugged us both. We didn't dare show sadness cuz we knew the other would instantly feel the same. We were very protective of each other, looking out for each other like you would a baby, from our 1st date we were like that. I know she'd have taken a bullet for me, & was practically eager to, I could see it, & besides I was ready to do the same. We both could not say I love you enough times a day, & never got tired of hearing it. She'd unlock & open the car door for me. We both never missed a you're welcome or a bless you, never mind a thank you. She's the only person more vigilantly polite than me I've met. We're both gentle, yet we've both been in many fights, & are both pretty tough. I saw how serious she became the second she knew someone was bothering me. I was the
same, ready to take on the world at a moments notice. There was a constant underlying sense of urgency in our relationship; we acted like we were trying to meet a deadline every day. The day she got hit, my bike broke down 200 yards before where she was hit. A piece of aluminum as thick around as my thumb snapped off like nothing. Practically came off in my hands. She said I should walk my bike up to the gas station & she'd get her friend to come pick me up.It was only 200 yards ahead, but I said I would rather just walk my bike back home 1 1/2 miles in the rain instead, As she rode off she called out " Love You!", & I called back "I Love You!" both of our voices echoed off the buildings. I am glad I didn't see the car hit her. We both loved each other as we were, unconditionally, & didn't expect or require the other to change in any way. We were both motivated to find out what we could change about ourselves to please the other, & then did it. We were totally at ease
& comfortable together that 1st night like we'd been best friends all our lives. It felt right, like we belonged together and had finally reunited after a very long absence. We knew each other that well, that soon. When the ambulance went by me as I walked my bike home I thought `I sure hope that's not for her', then thought nah it couldn't be. She had been hit by a pick up truck four blocks up that same road two years ago, & almost died. It didn't make the corner & came up on the sidewalk, & if it hadn't hit a lamppost would have killed her. She had broken ribs, a broken hip, & other injuries. Witnesses called her the miracle girl. That was why I felt sure it could not be for her. Just as I have seen so many times before, when I'm absolutely certain, & would argue it to the death, I'm wrong. Pride goeth before a fall. Yesterday, May 30th, Eileen said `hi' & then was saying hi to everyone who entered the room. She is now like a strong, 100 pound baby, & is rapidly healing. I am so proud of her. I call this a miracle. I have had at least half a dozen premonition dreams. Two days ago, I remembered a dream I had over 8 years ago, (5+ years before I met Eileen) where I was in a department store with the Fresh Prince & I held a black baby girl in my arms, I asked Will Smith if she was his & he laughed & said no. I wondered who's baby she was, & when I looked into her eyes I saw crystal snowflake things that were sparkling. She then spoke to me, & I thought to myself that this baby is special, babies don't talk. I never understood what that dream meant. Eileen has the most incredible dark brown eyes I have ever seen. Scary there is so much power in there. My girlfriend
at the time I had the dream is black, same as the baby, & now Eileen, my partner, my fiancee, is like a baby, & when she said her first words last Friday night, it hit me. I no longer wonder.

 

This as an odd thread.

I just need to find a nice way to tell the "transition person" that they've served their purpose and can now go about their business.

 

maybe adding some compassion, so robotic like, haha? ^

 

"thanks for all your help. you may go now."

 

This thread sounds to me like the author read the Celestine Prophecy perhaps a few too many times.

 

"But are we not constantly in transition, therefore always needed a different transition person, therefore never truely falling in love and staying with one person?"


Could it be that the concept of moving on is simply a response to fear? Fear of complete intimacy makes it easy to say that a person has served a purpose and needs to go.
How is it that some people manage to stay together in spite of personal changes and difficult times? Are they soulmates or just compassionate, tolerate people?

 

Blackguard you just described the transition person ..they sound almost as good as the soul mate ..please clarify the difference of the signs you see in the beginning

 

I wish everyone knew or could read this

 

Beekeeper ...
Your channelling entirely too much that is "familiar" to me .. its very hard to ignore.

 

Kilgore- who in the world are you talking to ?
I agree with the comment that -you come off sounding a little spockish...robotic ...and isnt that a little ego-ish ..I mean what if "your" the transition ... and maybe YOU should go now? Do you even care for this person? Its good to have logic, but a heart goes further dont you think?

 

This is an example of OVERANALYZING, which renders all subjects unfunny.

 

Oh he was trying to be funny ...hmmmm well its dry ..but yes I can see it

 

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