needs to die and go to hell, because I get it bad. Ah, insecurity and jealously are such a great pair! You'd think that after 8 months it would stop... but no.
It took me a few years. Too many years actually. I'm 31 and it took me till I was 29 to develop security. I'm a late bloomer. The best advice I can give is know that jealousy and insecurity does go away in time but for me it took Trust, a lot of talking, and changing a few things about the way I was thinking.
Somewhere out there someone named Jella C. Insecuritie is crying not only from your hateful remarks and slander, but also because you butchered the spelling of her name.
jealousy is an emotion. you cant get rid of emotions. the best thing to do is just realize it's just an emotion and let it be and dont let it work you up.
Just everything. Any time my man expresses any sort of liking of any kind for another female I get all freaked out. I don't buy into the whole idea of not being able to get rid of jealousy. If I was not insecure, I would not be jealous. He gives me no reason to be jealous or anything, it's just because I assume he'd rather be with someone else other than me.... and if I thought more of myself, I would not have this worry. And that is something that I can change. I'm trying to do those things Peanuts... but I think I'm going to be a late bloomer like you
He may not give you reason to be jealous, but then again he may not being doing enough to make you feel secure just a thought
I think he is... although since this is my only relationship I guess I have nothing to compare it to... but other than that time he said he didn't love me, he is really good about letting me know that I am the only girl he wants to be with. Ah, if only I could stop annoying myself
That was exactly the case a while back with me and john. I was almost embarassed to bring it up to him, but after he understood, things improved.
just tell him how you feel be honest if he loves you he'll make an effort, if he doesn't then there are plenty of other fish in the sea and you will be happy again. Leave it up to him don't burden yourself with the worry or the decision of where you two are going.
well, I already know he doesn't love me... or so he claims. And that's fine with me, so I just don't know what my deal is.
Well, guess what...Maybe sometimes he would rather be with a female friend who is not his lover. Don't you have male friends with whom you do not share your bed? In every relationship I have had, we've had her friends, my friends, and our friends. If both of you do not occasionaly take time off from the "our" parts, you're gonna go nuckin' futz.
