Friendship - Love - Lust

The definitions are vague enough... but how do you tell if what you feel for someone is just one or all of the above?

discuss lol

Are you in love or in lust right now?

 

Love and Lust are a complete nightmare to figure out.. In the past I thought I was in love.. but later realised it was just Lust...

A complete head fuck...

Saying that though.. over the years you kind of figure out what love is..

At this moment in time I am experiencing all 3 I rekon.. One hell of a whirlwind

 

friendship is like... you are cool, i want to chill w/ you.

love is like... i want to live with you and make sweet love down by the campfire... entranced

lust is like... LOOK AT THE ASS ON THAT BITCH! Look at the titties!

 

But dosn't that all get confused depending on the circumstances? Sometimes you can honestly feel like you want to live with them for ever but then realise you erm, don't

Friendships a tricky one too I think... you can feel so much love for a friend and get confused thinking it's being in love when it really isn't.

Lust is a nightmare though :X

 

Well, despite occupying seperate sections of a dictionary, they do have some things in common.
In all three you can be on cloud 9.
In all three you can get fucked over.

I don't think mixing them up is a problem as long as you always remain honourable in what you say and also in what you do!

~

 

Friends rock:sunglasse ... apart from shitty ones, but I don't think any of my friends are shitty at the moment..


I did have a shitty friend, Jennyshe was truely evil, god she really was

 

I had a shitty friend... Stole most of my Cd's and sold them for some cash
..and I believe she porned her mothers engagement ring come to think of it...
Some bad ass people out there

 

i am in lust more than love i would say

 

BOOOOO to shitty people :$


YAYAYA to rocking people :sunglasse

 

I don't think I'm "in love" with anyone at this time. I do, however, have a definite attachment to many of my friends to the point of feeling okay telling them that I love them. And I do. Very much. Coming from a family that I can't be open with, I rely on my friends for support at times. I'd bend over backwards for them and I'm sure many of them would do the same for me. And I love them for it.

I do have a few crushes where the lust factor comes into play. But even so, I have a good amount of respect for those people and think of them as friends as well. One of them even knows that I'm in lust with her. Makes for interesting conversation at times.

 

Love can't really exist without lust and friendship, which is part of the reason it's so easy to confuse those emotions.

I think age is the only realy solution. The older you get, the easier it becomes to disentangle your feelings.

 

that's a relief! I was worried I was gonna be a confused tangled web of doooooooooom for the rest of me life. hmph. hum....
buh, what was i gonna say? *ponders*
i forget. this is such a TERRIBLE song on the radio, think it's sugababes or somEthing . i only have one word for them-UGH.

'in love' for me is the whole romantic ultimate partner etc blah blah blah, however i don't think i've ever been IN love. lust of course, yeah i think everyone has lusted after someone.

love however, hum, well, of course being english, we have to have one word for it, whereas the greek have lots of handy sub-words for love. grrr why could i not be greek?! tangent, sorry.

 

It gets easier with age!!!......Damm wish someone had told me....

 

..what i meant to say was. i love pretty much everybody, but not all in the same way. i look for most peoples beauty, whether it be outer beauty(i like to call it natural art) or inner beauty(a lovely metaphor for saying someone looks like the back of a bus -joking!!!!) i try to love everyone, and by that definition of love, i mean respect/like/positive apprehension etc.


my conclusion:i wish to be greek.

 

Or you become so jaded and cynical that you just don't care anymore

 

Yeah, that's generally how you feel when you're still single

 

You just described the last seven years of my life

 

i think im in lust atm lol and its actually rele cool lol id rather be in lust than in love

 

i think im in lust atm lol and its actually rele cool lol id rather be in lust than in love atm

 

im confused with all three. but more by people than the emotions :S