I have been looking to meet someone for awhile and haven't had any luck. It seems hard to meet people since i don't have any friends and the places i go arn't very good since most of the girls are stuck up and have an attitude. Ive even tried at my school i go to and no luck there( 2 year college). When i was younger the girls wanted me, and some of them were goodlooking and some not very goodlooking, but i wasn't interested then. There is this friend that i used to know and I like his sister. I don't talk to him anymore because of somethings that happened between us, but now i think he doesnt live at his parents house anymore. His dad seems pretty normal and easy to get along with, but his mom is weird like he is. Id like to just go over there sometime and talk to his sister, what do u think I should do? She is going to be 18 this summer and i am 24 so i think that should be ok ,and it would be nice if it worked out since its someone i know, instead of just trying to randomly meet people at odd places. What does anyone else think i should do???
Well, I hate to be a Negative Nancy, but I think it's a bad idea. I started college early and it really pissed me off when guys who were your age would hit on me and then asked me on dates like the day after I turned 18. I always questioned why guys that age felt they had to ask out someone who hadn't even been out in the world yet. Your ego really is what makes me ultimately say no. "The girls wanted me." Well, what happened to you since? You'd probably think I was stuck up too, because with an attitude like that I'd laugh in your face! (No offense, but that's just cheesy and unbelievable from what you've written.) And BTW, if you don't like her family, don't date her. It doesn't bode well for a future relationship.
Abyle brings up some decent points. What are you intentions anyway, do ya just wanna get in somebodies pants or is there more to this. Do ya really even know the girl at all?? if you just think she's hot then maybe you should forget it.
I wouldn't go for it, because what happens to your relationship with her brother if the two of you break up? If it's a nasty break up? If she blames you, or you blame her, if one of you turns out to be violent when you fight? All sorts of shit can go wrong
Well one of the reasons i like her is because she is goodlooking, but she seems to have good values unlike most girls. She is the type who stays at home alot and doesnt go out much(probably doing her homework.) She seems nice and a bit shy, thats also a turn on rather than a girl that doesn't ever shut up. She is raised Catholic i think too so that may have something to do with it. I get along with the dad, but the mom is like mentally ill or something, i mean she complained when i like was going to wash my hands in their kitchen, she yelled at the dad about it. She acts alot like my stepmom, i don't really like people who make a big deal about nothing and have to yell at other people, its really unnecessary. At least its someone that i know already, who cares about her age anyways? In my first post i didnt give enough information but still you didn't need to judge me right away. Anyone else that has something useful and would like to help me out feel free to post a message, Later peoples.
if you're looking for an affirmation of your decision, write in your journal - it will always agree with you. If you want our opinions, post on here. You'll get responses that may not agree with you, but that doesn't mean you should flat out ignore them (not saying you have, but it sounds like you don't really want to hear them). I still think it's a bad idea. 18 and 24 isn't bad, that's not the problem. It can seriously screw up your friendship with her brother, and I personally think that friendships are a thousand times more important than a relationship.
I dont have no friendship with him and i think he moved away from home anyways based on his yahoo profile it says that ( but he is also a liar). I quit being friends with him because all he does is gets people in trouble and some of the stuff he said about me, so im not worried about a friendship with him. If he doesnt like then tough, but i mean hes not the worst person to have for a brother in law, not as bad as the guy my sister is with. The guy she is with just says whatever he wants to but if u say something back he has a problem with it, its like its ok for him to dish it out but not get it served to him, I don't really like people like that. My stepmom is the same way, a stupid hypocrite as well.
