Pretending to be gay??

Actually...I can further support Skeeter's whole "fellatio" example.

Yes, today's society DOES have straight gays doing gay actions for whatever of the many, many reasons.

However, we're talking about a situation that occurred in a completely different time period, about 30-40 years ago!

Back then, homosexuality was not only widespread or open, but neither widely accepted as well. This was a time where it was still considred largely "taboo," persay. If a straight guy was told to perform fellatio on the spot as a test, chances are their true instintcts would emerge, thus backing down.

Of course, other body language must be considered as well. If they DID accomplish the task, how did it pan out? What were their reactions when they were told to prove it AND while they were performing it? Were they reluctant for like a minute? Did their faces fill with disgust and aloofness?

When you look at those aspects, the whole idea could be plausible, so who knows!

 

Sorry, Monosphere, but I'm not buying any of it. I've been an afficianado of gay porn films for longer than either you or your porn-actor friend have been alive. And one thing has been consistent in gay porn since the '70s: Straight guys will not suck dick. Many have been booted off the set for refusing to do so. So I stand by my statement.

-- Skeeter

 

If I was asked to perform fellatio on Dick Cheney (no pun intended) or Rush Limbaugh my body language might imply that I'm straight ! :$

On the other hand if the guy was young and hot, I'd go to town in an instant

 

Hmm.. I wonder how a straight guy can suck mine then.

I'm sorry, but I still won't support your statements. They may be true in your experiences, but definitely not in mine. Believe me or not. Honestly I don't care. But to make a blanket statement and generalization about one's sexuality or willingness to participate in sexual activities, don't try to pass that on as fact. Step into the grey area for a change. Maybe things are just different now than back in the 70s. Could we have evolved just a bit to get over our insecurities? The younger generations have more of an open mind than some of the older ones. Maybe it's an east coast vs west coast thing. I only say that because I've never been back east and am not completely sure of the mentality there.

I'm not doubting that your personal experiences have led you to believe what you say. Why do you doubt mine? Because you're older than me? Because you've watched more porn than me? Just because I haven't lived on this planet longer than you doesn't mean I haven't lived life to its fullest. Just try to keep an open mind and realize that people's mentalities are not what they used to be. We CAN have sex without defining sexuality. It might not happen all the time, but it happens.

By the way, my dude did confirm that most of the straight guys in gay porn that he knows of will either close their eyes or at least look in any direction but the guy he's performing on. So I'll give you that one. AND the ratio of straight guys who perform oral in movies has been lower in the past, but not so much in the past decade.

 

i bi but if i was str8t ied suck dick if ment i did not have to kill

 

Wait-a-minute... How are we defining "bisexual?" Arguably, if we're judging on the Kinsley scale, a guy who scores a 2 or 3 on a scale of 10 (1 being uber straight, 10 being flamin' fairy) might suck a dick, but in the eyes of heterosexual dominant culture, might be viewed as straight.

 

my point is that this guy only pretended to be gay for attention. you guys can come up with all the theories you want, but the fact is... I know him and he admitted it

in any case, it's not ok to pretend to be somebody you are not. I don't know why that's such a hard concept for people get.

 

Hmm, Maybe this is what the b-uh-iii-bl was talking about.

To attempt to decieve people into thinking that you are gay for the sake of attention or acceptance is an abomination.

Yep, this guy deserves to Burn in the firey flames of Hell. Their flames will lick upon his sorry ass. He will forever be lost in the eyes of the lord.

He needs to go get some sex with a guy to save his imortal soul.

Pray for him sisters & brothers. May he see the error of his ways. May he not only engage in the act of oral sex with other men but also accept anal from them too. Only then will he be honest to his word. Will his deeds salvage his unworthy soul.

Oh, ya, he has to quit eating bacon too. :X

 

^^ lol

 

How do you know you're the only guy he's given a blowjob to? If that's the case, then I'll concede your point. But if he's given blowjobs to other guys, then he's at the very least bisexual and is in denial of it.

And by the way, you never mentioned that your "straight" friend has -- or ever has had -- a female companion.

-- Skeeter

 

I know because he's told me and I TRUST him. That and he has had several female companions throughout our friendship. He's happily married now.

And even if he had given a bj to another person back then, it wouldn't change the fact that he's straight. He just can't see guys in a romantic way. It's not natural to him. He definitely likes women, not men.

 

Okay, okay, I'll concede your point. But remember that there are plenty of married men out there who are deeply closeted bisexuals.

-- Skeeter

 

I have been in denial a about sexualty for as long as can remember i have spent
most my life prtending to be str8t but i am 50/50 bi but i am just starting happy with it and chat about it.

 

He could be bi and fighting it. He just aint comfy yet. I am sure he is avoiding issues at the present. He will come clear soon enough.

 

I have no idea how old he is or what his ethnic and/or cultural background is. Is he close to his family? Is he religious? Is he a clown? Has he had relationships that you know about? How open is he to you about other things that are going on in his life?

Honestly it amazes me sometimes that people throw a crumb of information and expect grandious analysis and assessment to be made. Maybe he felt like saying he was gay. Maybe he's exploring. Maybe he's wishy-washy. Maybe he should see the movie JEFFREY.

 

Christ, Duncan I sure hope you aren't talking to me because I provided all the info I knew at the time, and then posted later to say I was right. He has a girlfriend now.

Before you start bitching, read all of the posts.

If that wasn't directed at me, please disregard!

 

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