Kissing

okay i need a bit of help. i never kissed a girl before and i wanted to know what to do... yah its emabarssing to even ask this, even online but i have read some threads and you guys seem pritty cool so i thought id ask. i wanted to know, what do you do when you kiss someone? ( a girl in my case) like where do your hands go? eyes open or closes? what am i accuatly doing with my tounge or lips or what ever? lol theses are newbish questions but i have know. i feel soo intimidated around girls now. also when do you know it is the right time to move in to kiss? and how far do i have to lean in? any other tips are welcome thanks alot... and please dont judge every one was new at this at some time

 

eyes usually closed.

and do whatever she does.

trust me,you learn REALLY fast.

 

yeah its kind of instictive

haha

 

hey i never kissed a girl before either. will someone show me?

 

eyes closed

control your saliva. Sloppy wet kisses aren't fun for the first kiss with someone. Make sure your lips stay primarily on hers... kiss her mouth, not her cheek (my last bf was a very sloppy kisser, ugh, ended up having to wipe off my cheeks a lot)

A nice place (I find) to place your hand is on her cheek, or the back of her neck (lightly though, just gently cradling her skin)

 

^^thanks for that advice... i heard some where not to shove my tounge down her throat first kiss... that true?

 

ok, not sure how old you are, but no stubble (so shave)


hands....im guessing you want to make it special, so no butt grabbing, y'hear? just hold her, you can always play with her hair or hold her hand(s), or generaly just wrap them round her

it will come naturaly just go with the flow, and take it gentle...don't slam you're tongue into her mouth, as i said, see what happens, it'll come naturaly. If you're nervous, it'll be scary, so just relax, have a drink or something

and have fun!

oh, and as for your eyes, do whatever feels right...most ppl close them, but it's nice to have a little glance at the gal

 

yeah...thats what i would have said if i got in there first lol


well said

 

just go with the flow

 

Don't worry about it, just let it come naturally. It will be soo much easier than you think, trust me.

 

ahh thanks. and ill be sure to shave

peace...

 

your hot lol

and what you said was very true

 

awwwh, thankies :&


and hey dude, give us a shout when you've kissed her! the first kiss is always magical, it'll be nice to hear your happyness

 

i recommend closing your eyes, lightly brushing her lips before entering any tongue and dont force it down, be gentle and play around a bit, just respond to what she does as well, you could put one hand on the back of her neck and the other hand cupping the side of her jaw/face gently. something nice to do just before you kiss is to just lightly lick her lip but maybe not a good idea on the first kiss... oh and biting is fun too but dont do that on the first kiss either... dont think that kissing is all about tongue! the lips play a bit part too, take it slow!

i remember my first kiss, all i could think about was a fish swimming around LOL coz we'd just had cold drinks so it was wet and cold.

 

good advice sooty!


for my first passionate kiss i was so drunk i just happily went with the flow, took a great relief off of me

 

Well You will learn quick. Dont rush into it. Sort of tease with your tounge, girls like that, well at least I do, and at times pull away so you are only brushing her lips...have fun