Ok I Dont Know Where Else To Go, I Aint Gonna Talk To My Homeboys About This Or Anything. Im An 18 Yr Old Guy And Still A Virgin. Wouldnt Say Im Ugly At All, Just Shy As Fuck. Anyways, Went To The Clubs Last Night With Some Homeboys And Long Story Short, Brought Back A Girl To My Place. I Had A Little Alcohol Buzz But Not Much At All, Smoked A Blunt With A Few People Right Before I Started Messin Around With This Girl. (i Smoke A Few Blunts Everyday, My Tolerance Is Way Up There). So Kissin Leads To Some Head And I Start Takin Her Pants Off....she Sticks It In With No Rubber. Next Position, She Starts Ridin Me. Ok Wtf I Know Im Not Gay So Dont Say That Or Some Bullshit Like That, My Dick Started Gettin Soft. Not No Erection At All But Softer Than It Should Be When My Dicks In Her Pussy, Know What I Mean. Switch Positions And Start Goin At It But It Aint Workin, Her Shit Didnt Even Feel Good!?!? I Dont Get It Wtf. She Gives Me Head Again And I Get Hard As A Rock Again Then It Starts All Over, Does This A Few Times Until She Asks Me Why Im Not Stayin Hard. All I Could Say Was That Blunt Got To Me. Probly Lasted About A Hour And A Half Of This Shit, She Got Tired Of Suckin My Dick And Tryin To Get Me To Nut So That Didnt Even Happen.....wtf!?!?!? Ive Been Dreamin Of This Day For A Long Time And It Finally Comes With A Cute Ass Little G Irl And I Cant Even Keep My Dick Up!!! I Dont Know What The Fucks Wrong With Me. She Was Borin Though When We Were Goin At I And Very Obvious She Was Gettin Tired Of It
Woah dude! Sounds like you were just a little nervous or something. Or maybe you were more buzzed than you think.
I Was Really Nervous, My Heart Was Beatin Like A Muthafucker Man! I Havent Done That Much With Girls But This Is Still Gettin To Me....it Shouldnt Happen Like This
Nah But When We Were Goin I Just Wasnt Feelin It....wtf I Know That Dont Make Sense But Its The Best I Can Type It Out
maybe you just weren't feelin' it with that girl...sometimes a person's pheromones just don't match up with another's...you just don't feel it. you probably were pretty buzzed, too. it's hard for guys to keep it up when they're really stoned or drunk. next time try it sober and with someone you like a little more
I had a similiar problem when I lost my virginity. I was 15 or 16, and a girl I went to high school with asked me to fuck her when we started talking at a party one night. I was really drunk and high, and my erection flimsy to say the least. This was only her second time having sex and she was as drunk and high as me, maybe more. So we just went at it for like an hour, I neither one of us came, and we both ended up spreading vicious rumors around school about each other in anticipation of rumors being spread by the other, lol. Anyhow, I have lots of good sex since and never had the problem again. Stop smoking so much and don't get drunk if you think you might get ass.
Yes, exactly! Were you trying to pleasure her as well? There's a lot more to sex than a hard dick and a willing pussy. Your post made it sound like she was trying to pleasure you, but you weren't really reciprocating.... if you tried going down on her, maybe that would have kept her a little more interested? the first time for a lot of people can make them very anxious, and make it difficult to keep a hardon. Hopefully your next time will go better.
^^i Was Fingerin Her For About 10-15 Minutes While Makin Out And Shi. I Think The Bud Got To Me, Stressed Me Out Even More Or Somethin. Thanks Yall^^im Gonna Keep All This In Mind
I think you were probably nervous because this girl acted like an irresponsible whore and stuck it in with no condom. Find a girl who DOESN'T feel like getting pregnant and see how that works. Your first time is a scary thing anyway. Any kind of nerves will hinder the erection process. You have to be totally into it and not nervous at all. Try it with a girl who really likes you and you want to have sex with and can do that responsibly. I think the mixture of it being your first time and the fear of getting this girl knocked up (or getting an STD- you could have, man) got in your way.
^^^DEFINITELY use a condom! Everyone has already said it...find someone you're more interested in, stay sober, and relax...the first time is often a little nerve-wracking.
I agree, I have been there. Sadly, the girl felt it, big time, she would get goosebumps when I kissed her and would get all wet. But I wasn't feeling it. Kissing felt boring, I sorta faked the passion and knew we weren't a good match once we started having sex but tried as hard as I could. So it made sex tough.
Thanks Everyone. One More Thing....am I A Virgin If I Didnt Nut? Oh Yea, Now Im Stressin On My Dick Fallin Off Or Something. Cant Believe I Didnt Use A Rubber
Why the fuck would you post with every single word capitalized? Do you have any idea how fucking annoying that is to read? -Jeffrey
^^wtf Chill Out And Hit The Blunt. Im Typin In All Caps, This Forum Is Changin It To The First Letter Of Each Word
