I just pissed off my gf because I saw one of my friends call my gf hey sexy. I got pissed off and I went online and told this friend off. My gf got mad at me and told me she was just playing around (this friend always plays around) but for some reason this ticked me off big time. My gf got pissed of and went to her room to ignore me like she always does. My gf and I are soulmates we know it, and we also know that Im virgo and she is aquariouse(very long explaination.) And I started to cry, my gf just left the door with her cd player. Sometimes I think she treats her friends better than she treats me but I know she has treated me way better than my ex-bf's. I just donno what to do from here? This is my first same-sex relationship. Was I wrong to get pissed off like that? We have a huge history of almost everything and we get through anything. But I just donno what to do? This is the first time I really cared for someone and now I'm lost? I've got problems to deal with and she's been there for me but now I think she won't be for much longer. What should I do?
how well do you two communicate? it sounds like some talking would do your relationship a lot of good. if i'm getting this right, one of her friends made a comment that she said was meant playfully, and you took it as her friend hitting on her? have you guys ever said, "these are what my boundaries are, and this is what i'm comfortable with?" maybe you guys aren't seeing things the same way, and have different ideas of what is acceptable. just talk. why did she leave? were you yelling, or threatening her? if you didn't create a hostile environment, then it sounds like she's just ignoring the problem, and that's not good. find out why she is unwilling to work on things, if that is truly the case... perhaps it's a sign that the relationship is waning?
Yeah... Your friend isn't responsible for what your girlfriend does and if she were really this awful creature sleeping around behind your back, she wouldn't do that to your face. I'd issue them both apologies and move on.
All someone did was express how beautiful she is. She's probably a knock out! You should be flattered! Just because someone compliments her, doesn't mean she will leave you to be with someone else. Next time you should say "isn't she? I'm a lucky chick" My boyfriend's friends half hit on me all the time, but it is never crossing a line and it's usually right in front of him. He doesn't mind. He loves to spark a little bit of jealousy by telling them of our latest romp in the bedroom. Don't take it too seriously. You don't want to make her feel trapped or anything.
Thats the thing I know when my friend starts to hit on someone and when shes playing. And I was just in my room because when my gf gets pissed off she scares me, so I just start to leave her alone. She always leave and a friend of mine tried hekping us out 2 months ago and she tried leaving and my other friend got up at her face and ask why she keep leaving? (My other friend isn't afraid of black girls with huge tempers) My gf said if she stays she just doesn't wanna hurt anyone. Don't get me wrong we love each other with all our hearts and still in love, lots of passion and disire for each other but the bad times is what gets the hardest for us to get through. Anyways, when she came back after an hour and a half she just told me she had to cool off and we appoligiesed to each other and I said sorry to our online friend. I have to admit I have a huge cuban temper and my gf has a huge black girl temper, so it gets pretty hard to talk to each other when we're just hot headed. Thanks guys for hearing me out and helping me out.
