is it even meant to happen?

me and my boyfriend have been together awhile now.... and everytime we're about to have sex we get interrupted or something goes wrong. is that like a sign that i shouldn't sleep with him?

 

maybe, but I doubt it. What kind of things interrupt you guys?

 

I'm superstitious, so I myself would take it as a sign.

 

I'm not superstitious, so I'd say to just tell people to GO AWAY! turn off the phone, the net, close the doors and lock them....and go at it

 

i would take it as a sign how long have you two known each other or been together

 

I recently let myself get discouraged by what I perceived to be "signs" - I already regret it. If I get another chance, I am going to go for it. I won't tell you how to run your life, but maybe you can learn from my experience.

 

I don't believe in signs, not in the sence of being that caused by an external force at any rate - however, I do believe that you might be seeing signs that you yourself are looking out for, maybe for means of justification of an action.. do you see what I mean?

Now the fact that you keep wanting to get it on, but keep being interrupted means one of two things, either that you're crap at planning intimate moments, or that you're some how setting yourself up into situations where you know you'll get interrupted, because you're not sure...

You know what I think? ignore signs, look at yourself - have a think, do YOU want to have sex? are you comfortable having sex, then act on what you discover.

(PS, if you want a safe place to get your freek on, you can borrow my bedroom - but should I happen to forget about my webcam and leave it running, well, mo' fool me )

 

could be a sign that you two need to find new places to have sex

 

hmm... lock the doors, turn the phone off, turn the tv off, make sure windows are covered, hahaha.. have music on or something? hahaha...

 

LOL That happens to us a lot when we're at his house...the phone always rings! But we just laugh, it's not a *sign* it's just a busy phone line. Like someone up there said, maybe you're looking for signs cos deep down you're not comfortable with what's going on.

 

I believe in signs and this sounds like one to me. But its only a sign if you believe in signs, don't just start one day. If you believe its a sign it could be numerous messages. Either the places or detials are wrong, or its the wrong person. Just trust your gut instinct and have sex or don't, whatever works for you!

 

well we finally got to do the deed but people would come over or the phone would ring. it was insane how one thing after another would happen right when things were getting... fun. ;-) but thanks for all your advice!!!!

 

And... how was it? We (read: "I") want all the gory details