Girls,why is that...

you wear small tops to show clevage
you wear makeup to look pretty
you wear small skirts
your obsessed with your wieght

id hate to be a girl in todays world, i think there too presshured into lookin perfect. Maybe its just the girls in my area but everytime i come in contact with one i cant help but think about how shallow they act.I hate it when they say things to trigger off certain thoughts in your head,like they think there really clever and that they have a superior ability to munipulate boys minds ,its makes me feel like shouting NO,JUST MOST OF US HAVE MORALS :$ but they wouldnt have a clue what i was on about.im not saying all girls are like this,ive met some cool ones on here that know theres more to life than looking pretty for the boys and im not saying that im perfect but i try to be true to my honest oppinions.
if i was a girl id wear T-shirts and skirts that go below the knee and no makeup, i dont have estrogen running through my body but i dont see how that would make me think any different.

maybe im just angry,jellous and bitter.

 

yeah, you cant classify all girls like that, if your gonna blame something, blame society...

 

Why are girls/women like that


Because at some point in history men made them believe that the most important thing that they can do with their lives is to make men happy and have all of their babies, it is an easy way to control them and destroy their minds by making them believe that all of their focus has to be on how they look, if you don't use your mind it stops working... anyway this is still encouraged in girls from the second they are born, parents make their kids think they have to be pretty and that is what their life is about, they have to end up with a boyfriend, and do anything they can to get attention from boys, and you know when something is drilled into your head like that, it is hard to think otherwise, lots of women continue to think that way until their old and gray.

There are such stereotypes that boys/men are forced into believing and achieving about themselves as well, but I won't get into that.

Anyway I actually do wear long skirts and tee-shirts and no make-up. I just thought that was cute that you said that.

 

Natural beauty is by far the best. No one can do a better job than Jah himself!

 

i thought id get a load of people shouting at me for this thread

i suppose i agree,it is mens fault,well not mens fault,who/what ever designed human natures fault.i also hate male pride,i guess i just hate people that dont have a clue whats lifes really about but then i think its not there fault,it was there surroundings that carved away there personallity.im glad to hear there are still self respecting pure minded women out there.

 

Exactly.

 

Because some men tell us that we'd look better without makeup, without showing off our bodies, etc...and then they go out and check out all the women who are wearing just that.

I'm lucky, I have an awesome bf who thinks I'm beautiful, whether I'm dressed up and made up or whether I just woke up, unshowered.

 

im a girl and i agree- i think its kind of how we are raised- like how can we not care how we look when its all weve ever known to care about but i thin your right- girls shouldnt wear makeup- its a form of lying, plus its abd for your skin. i used to do the whole girl thing with lots of eyeliner and cute pumps and stuff now i just wear whats comfortable which is usually an old t shirt and my favorite jeans or a skirt. i think that you cant give a blanket explanation for every girl and why she tries to look good bc they all have different motives but id say its just because it makes them efel good ab themselves- which is a shame that we think we have to look good to accept ourselves- if that makes since

 

Girls can only bitch about men and society for so long. There comes a point when you look in the mirror and you have to accept yourself, love it, and find it sexy.

Women complain too much about the pressures of society. Sure, it's had an impact, but then what are you gonna do about it?

I don't care about being pretty or looking perfect. It takes up too much time. I eat what I want, I don't dress very sexy. I dress comfy and funky. I like me and my style. I don't need anyone to tell me otherwise.

 

I'd love to have more of an attitude that some of you ladies here have. I mean, I spend a lot of time worrying about my appearance. But in the same sense, I enjoy primping because it makes me feel good.

I find it funny how first thing in the morning, when I don't have a stitch of make-up on and my hair is in a messy pony-tail and I look probably 15 years old (I look very young even with my make-up and hair done however) that my husband can't stop staring at me and telling me how beautiful I am. He prefers the less is more approach. Me, well, it depends on my mood.

 

hahahahahahahaha..... sorry.... yea not ALL women are like that... personally i could care less what I look like and what anyone thinks of me. I wear what I think is comfy (usually pajamas everywhere) and don't care to impress anyone. I don't care about weight either... I didn't even know what I weighed for the last year and half .. couldn't care less and was never on a scale til I got pregnant.. now i have to make sure i gain enough weight.

 

I think there is a balance! I mean I like smelling nice and shaving my legs FOR ME! I think it feels good to smell good and feel clean. Usually I like to do my 2 min. make-up routine in the morning (meaning eyeliner!) Clothing, well as for that, I feel simple, nothing to showy is BETTER! I like my longer skirts and less showy shirts or anything comfortable. But I think theres a line, where if u can't go to the drug store around the corner, go to class, or even take out the trash w/o looking in the mirror 1st U GOT ISSUES!
I do think that our society does tell girls that u NEED to look good. I mean, my mom has said to me be4 "U got nice legs, u should show them off while ur still young with a little short skirt." She means perfectly well, and I know she wants me to look cute, but its not me. I own one short skirt just b/c she wanted me to have one! So its not just men encouraging us to show off our bodies.

 

i shower and i smell fine and i don't go out looking like i just woke up or shit but i dont care to take the time to look 'pretty' and 'sexy' i just pull my hair up and go!

 

dont listen to hippyloves bullshit she spends about ​

2 hours just puttin on make up ​

and then about another hour doing ​

her hair just to go out and buy a pack ​

of cigs or too get gas just imagine how ​

long it would be if she was really going ​

out god damn its forever dont let her ​

pull the wool over your ​

eyes shes all about the image​

 

im just kiddin what she said is about right

 

im not saying i dont like lookin at it........i mean im only male.i jus put myself in a womans shoes that likes to show it off and i think what a degrading life style it must be.i could never have a relationship with a female like that, i couldnt stand it.

 

Well, I like to look pretty but I really never wear revealing clothing, in fact I hardley ever wear girl pants cause it's much easier to find baggy styles in the men's section lol. I can't get to snotty though cause it's just my style, I mean I try to look pretty as much as most girls, it's just my kind of pretty, which is much more comfortable lol.

"im not saying i dont like lookin at it........i mean im only male.i jus put myself in a womans shoes that likes to show it off and i think what a degrading life style it must be.i could never have a relationship with a female like that, i couldnt stand it."

Ok, well you can't bitch about it if you perpetuate it. You can't say "oh I hate it when girls dress all revealing ...ohh look boobies half hanging out" It also pisses me off when guys say they like to look at it but couldn't date somene like that??? It's really more degrading to the men in my opinion though, think about it, a woman could control a man with cleavage! lol

 

Sorry, but it's something wrong for ladies to try to look pretty and attractvie? I don't think so!

 

Hell, i donno bout you guys, but I'm diggin tha cleavage an short skirts.

 

i think i can bitch about it and still like it, i dont think you get where im coming from.im not going to PRETEND i dont like lookin at it jus to prove my point, i cant help but like it because of my animal urges but that doesnt mean i respect the person whos boobs are on display for the world to look at.if i had boobs,i wouldnt put them on show because i know boys like to look at them,too much unwanted attention for my likeing.... BUT thats what girls like that want,attention! which seems like abit of a shallow way to go about getting it and that is why i couldnt "date" some one like that because personality is the main part of the attraction for me and while she is putting her self on show she is also making a statment about her personallity.

this is what i hate,its a apair of tits not an AK-47