Well heres the story. There is a boy (thats how they all start lol) well this boy and me have liked eachother a long time but he moved and things got messed up...So he came back here, as in where I live, so he could be with me. At first I was so happy and overwhelmed with joy, but now idk.... You see I dont see him a lot cuz my parents arent too crazy about him, and the other day he was upset so I got nervous asking him why, and he told me basically it was cause he hadnt been laid in a while. Now see that kinda got me upset, cuz first off I dont see him enough to be sexualy active. Second of all I dont want that to be all I am to him. I just want him to be happy in my company, but I guess that isnt good enough. Third of all I usually like to wait a good few months before having sex, in a relasionship, just to see if the boy can withstand it, or if all he wants is sex. I understand he has been frusterated and what not and I do feel very bad but I am not going to screw him when I feel that the time isnt right...My parents dont even know I've been seeing him which is bad on my part...I told my mom he was back though and I may hang out with him but I dont tell her when I do. I am under their (as in my parents) roof so I basically have to respect their opinion, to a cetain extent at least.. Also a few other things the other day he was all set on hanging out with me so I was like ok we can hang out after, just call me, if you feel like it. So I waited and didnt want to bother him cuz I dont like to be up his ass or anything. So finally at 12 I was like Im tired Ill just call him to say goodnight. So I called to find out he went to a hotel with his friend and some girl in the background who sounded really drunk. So I talked to him and he said he had to go smoke up so I said night. I didnt care too much but I did feel bad cuz he really was suppose to hang out with me, but that is ok I guess. The reason I am mad though is cuz his friend went to the hotel to basically screw that girl who was laughing in the background...And Tim (my boyfriend) had told me that he wanted to tag team her which he says he was just joking about, but idk hes been rather sexual frusterated so who knows. I am not sure if I should kinda let him be, or if I should talk to him, or if I should leave him. I am not really sure what I am doing. He is 20, I am 17 he lives with his friend and has a lil side job, he didnt graduate highschool and doesnt have a car....I just need some advise I guess....but this thread is kinda long so i dont know if anyone would want to read it all lol... Well thats my predicament, so yeah I need some form of advise...
If you already have a boyfriend, just be this person's friend, nothing more than that. Unless it's an open relationship.
It sounds like the 2 of you are looking for different things. He's looking for a good lay, while you're looking for something a bit more wholesome. I'm not saying either of you is wrong. Just in different places right now. So my advice is 1. Don't compromise what you want. 2. Don't expect him to compromise what he wants. Maybe that means you have to break up. Or just tone it down. Or maybe you can still be friends (even though, get real, that never happens).
He's feeding you a line. He wants to pressure you into sex. He's playing on your emotions. Tell him to whack off and he'll feel better.
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"I'm upset because I haven't been laid in a while" HAHAHA what a cock. Just read that quote over and over and It'll become clear how he regards you.
I find it funny how girls who are into their looks don't understand why the guys attracted to them are typically materialistic jock types just looking for a good lay...sorry to be blunt but I can't be the only one who noticed. I know flake did. You put out a statement and it will come back to you. BTW I'm speaking in general here so please don't take offense. But your pic does sorta give off that feel.
P.S. I have friend who always tries to look and behave sexy and never understands, why boys are interested only in her out look. There are three types of girls: 1.Those who can be only friends 2. Those who can be only sex partners 3 Those who can be both Try to be the third. that's best way I think.. (for more details please do not be shy )
if all hes looking for is sex and your not then don't be traveling down that road because you won't end up in the position you want. Try to just talk to him and say you are at a stage in your life where you want a relationship and not just sex.
