three way mystery

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by adalast, Apr 11, 2005.

  1. adalast

    adalast Member

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    My girlfriend and i are interested in having a three way with another girl, and we have no idea how to go about finding a someone. we have in mind what we want her to look like, and we know what our exceptions are. we haven't been lookin very long, but i was just wondering if anyone could give us any tips that could speed along the process. she is getting very restless for this to happen, she is really looking forward to it and i want to try to get it all lined up as fast as i can.

    so if anyone can give me some tips, it would be appriciated.
     
  2. crazy_gurl

    crazy_gurl Member

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    it's best if you both know the girl to start off with, so that you know her sexual history etc. maybe either u or ur gf know someone who could help you out? I don't suggest that you go for someone you really know, it could end up with some emotional attachment from either urself, ur gf or the other girl, and i'm guessing this is gonna b a one-off, rite? if you can get a friend of a friend, that would probably b best: no emotional attachment or awkwardness afterwards, yet you know the girl re sexual history. hope this helps.
     
  3. SelfControl

    SelfControl Boned.

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    I'd advise just going to a gay bar and getting one there, or else via the Internet. The sexual history thing... I dunno, I'd say someone is as likely to lie about it if they're a friend of a friend as if they're just some stranger. Plus it's a lot easier if it's with someone who you won't ever have to see again. Not that you wouldn't want to, but it's just less uncomfortable than if you do it with someone you've known for any length of time. I speak from experience.
     
  4. adalast

    adalast Member

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    thanks for the advice, unfortunately we have gone through all our friends to try to find someone, and we live two hours apart, so finding someone in a gay bar is a little troulesome, so that leaves online. i have been looking for a way to get ahold of someone, but as anyone who has tried to find someone online, all the yahoo chat rooms are filled with porn bots, and all the dating sites want you to pay, so i guess what i am really asking is, how can we find someone online for cheap (aka free) and easilly?
     
  5. KevinSmith

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    Adalast, my fiance and myself are in the same situation except we're looking for another female for a long-term triad as opposed to just sex. We're also having trouble finding decent people that fit our high standards. lol

    As for free dating sites, so far OkCupid.com is the best we've come across.
     
  6. ihmurria

    ihmurria fini

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    hmm... you want a threesome but aren't willing to pay monetarily. What about the emotional toll it can bring, are you willing to pay that price?


    If you're actually serious about it, I'd suggest something like adultfriendfinder.com. If you just want to fuck someone for free, well, make sure you wear some damn good condoms.
     
  7. white ginger

    white ginger Senior Member

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    hey Kevin
    I'm wondering
    Are your standards personality-, relationship- or sex-related? (or all)
     

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