I think relized about 11 year ago i did't understnad women in kindergarden when i had some sort of childhood relationship, but i rember we could't settle our differnaces over having 10 kids or two, and it been escalating. I know their are more women on this forum then men (my poll i posted) so i wanted to go over what i know, don't know. And discuss it among us and have a ending independent thought. Note these are mostly generalaztion or case specific Things i know: NOt very much but let talk about relationship enders. I think we should see other people- I'm already am NEVER bring up period to a girl, especally if their moddy that day don't say is it your period. never asks someone if their pregnut Always consider that someone paying special attention to you does not mean they like you but their your freind Don't assume(but that goes for many things) THings i like to know Why do they go to the bathroom in groups? Personal case If you;re stuck sitting next to ex on an airplane (back form italy) and you happend to breack up in the past few days and your mid flight and she shows you her pants crotch and says look i missing a button is mising on her pants ( at the same time is showing you part of her panties) and then carries on to other conversation. Is just she "unique" or is some sort of revenge, no idea on that one she done that many time after we broken up, the turn on and totally change SO many things too many things to listget back to this one I wonder is the confusion caused to me by girls makes it seem so much easier to be with guys then girls. With guys it easy to connect, and even if you don't they're all horny so things happen anyways (for the better or the worse?) Think it easier being with guys or girls?
I grew up around sisters and have had a lot of female friends over the years, so girls are not a mystery to me. Besides I'm really suspicious of the whole "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" theory, since differences between the genders can't be seperated from cultural conditioning. Biologically speaking, the difference between male and females is less than 0.1% so go figure.. Hmm because they can? If a group of guys went to the bathroom together, people would start insinuating things...I'm sure it would be really fun though lol I think it depends on your affinities with a particular individual, not necessarly their sex. There are many hot guys I would never ever connect with sexually all because of their personality, or lack thereof. And if you don't click with someone, it doesn't matter which parts they have it just doesn't happen.
personally, i dont get girls either. most of them are so concerned with make-up and their appearance. it just drives me crazzy! i never understood why most people think girls should be perfect beautiful angels. mostly i dont get along with too many stright girls because of this, cause they either want to talk about guys or what make-up they should where. of chorse, not all girls are like this. i normally get along real well with stright guys { the ones who don't care if i'm bi or not.} there's one guy that i work with (who happens to be gay) and it's really dificult for me to even just try to start a conversation with him. but that's mostly because i used to have a crush on him and the fact that he's really, verry cute. i'm NOT like this. if im not feeling good because it's that time of the month, then i'm gonna come right out and say, "hey, i'm on my period, im not feeling well, GIVE ME CHOCOLATE!!!" to talk about how their dates are going or to talk about their love/sex lives. or probally just to gossip. or put on some more make-up. but most likely, they're going to the bathroom to pee.
I dont think thats true at all. guys in gym classes go to the locker room in groups all the time and sometimes have to even take showers in the same shower stalls (or so i've heard) i agree with this, the people you connect with are the people you're going to understand the most. the fact that they either have a "lock" or a "key" doesen't matter.
That's true..but in general a group of guys do not run to the bathroom together under circumstances other than sport, which is considered to be a very manly thing.
I seen this idea on t.v. and other sources about male showering. I go to a small homophobic school and we don't have showers (but i think it be a great ides ) Seriouly i was wondering if their are actually schools with this idea in pratice
what about thoes ummm... thoes steam rooms (or whatever they're called) at exercise places. guys go in there, whearing only towles around their waist, and talk and gossip. (ok, i've only really seen that idea on tv as well, but still, does that meen they don't do that?)( i just realized this has in a way a relation to sport activity as well) they may not go running to the bathroom together, but they still hang out and talk about their latest girlfriend or gossip about the neardy kid in school. that was the only point i was trying to make, guys talk and gossip just as much as girls. the only difference is that girls do it in the one room they know some guy won't barge in, the ladies room.
i didn't meen males showering together "together", i just ment that in some places, the showers are in the same place and you see a lot of your fellow class mates but naked. and yes some schools do have showers, but i don't think the schools are intending for guys to take showers together "together"