okay so i guess i should start off by explaining why this all happened... back last year in november i was dating a guy... lets call him steve, now i loved steve, and i don't use that word lightly. i adored him. turns out he did not feel the same way about me, and made out with one of my girlfriends (at the time) Cindy. Cindy and i were pretty good friends, we would hang out a few times a week, she would always cut my hair and dye it (before i had dreads) and we played soccer together and went to parties, the whole good friendship deal. i never found out about this until about 3 months after it happened and 2 months after steve dumped me, for (obviously) a different reason. i had to find out through a friend, which i denied for a while. but then as more and more people started to tell me the same thing i found out it was true. i never got an apology from either of them. today in school, i was having fun with a bow-and-arrow and she walked in my range of fire, but i didn't shoot it at her, and many people walked in my range of fire. and she mouths "fuck you" at me. and said to her "What was that?" and then she started to mouth off, using words such as "dirty scrape" and "whore." and i know i shouldn't have snapped, but sometimes people just can't help themselves. i lost my self control. i can't even give anyone a play by play on what exactly i said becuase i was in the heat of the moment. i said things like "who do you think you are, you made out with my boyfriend and now your calling me a whore? how does that make any sense?" and she wouldn't face me, so i asked her to at least turn around and look at me, and she turned her head as she walked away from me and said " no becuase you a dirty scrape" i wanted to use my animal instincts and jump on her back and smash her face against a brick wall (if one happened to be around, which it was not). but i had some kind of self control, at least in the physical sense.. i just need some help, becuae i have fug a grave for myself, now she is going to call me names all of the time becuae i said something to her. and why would she not face me, and why would she not apologize. why did she do this, i don't understand!!
Don't feel bad. Cindy made out with YOUR man. She knowingly did so. Some friend. I'd say she's really lucky you didn't bust her nose. I probably would have.
I wouldnt recommend doing the brick wall thing & busting a persons face..I did and it landed me in jail. She thinks that you're jealous and she is going to try and use that to her advantage to make your life hell. Just ignore her, and most likely it will go way..she will get bored of trying and failing to piss you off. That guy is scum and doesn't deserve to be with you anyway. Think about this though...he did it to you...now he's going to do it to her as well. Karma is a bitch, she'll gets hers.
That's how I thought the story was going to end... Culture_revolution, don't waste your energy on those losers. There are much better people in the world that deserve to be with you!
I would have lost it.....seriously, not only because she's a backstabbing bitch but because she's acting as if she was the poor victim here. I say fuck the bitch up.
she sounds like a shday bitch and its probly a good thing you and her are no longer friends, she sounds like the kinda girl who wold tell all your business to everyone if you asked her not to.
Next time she says anything to you... tell her shes the whore... and just walk away.. She is a crazy lady.... You did nothing and she is not someone you want as a friend
This one is easy. Let me explain why she was mad and why she took it out on you. Your ex is a creep and he more than likely dumped her and she's upset. (You know he said he was going back to you 'cause they always lie about the one they're with.) Just be thankful that you are not in that mess. Smile a little smile for the cirlce.
haha aww thanks guys!! well i do have awsome friends at the moment, they all appluaded after i freaked on her, but i was too "in the zone" to realize. Of course what i thought would happen, happened, she twisted what happened to make her look innocent, but most people know the truth, and i know what happened, which is really all that matters. According to my philosophy teacher people will name call and do things like that to others becuase they have personal deficenies (spelling?) and need to make themselves feel better. so i'm thinking that she doesn't like her appearance very much and needs to call me a whore and a scrape to reasure herself that she isn't any of those things INTERSTINGLY ENOUGH, who was the one when Cindy thought she was pregnant to go into the drug stores and buy a test for her. YEAH, ME!! THAT'S RIGHT. we definately had a history together and now she hates me, well i mean i despise her for two reasons, making out with my ex-bf and for hating me when she has no reason to. greats morals in some girls today, but not all are like this, thank god.
I bet she called you those names because she feels like the one that's a whore and can't stand it. She let lust get in the way of a good friendship and can't stand the thought of having to own the responisbility for that. This guy will cheat on her too. If he'll do it with ya, he'll do it to ya. I don't blame you for wanting to pound her. but next time, try with all your might to just laugh at her. Laugh in her face because she fucked you over and has to live with that, and she'll end up getting fucked over too.
nah dont lower yourself to her level, no need to laugh at her "pound her" or even insult her, you know the score, you know the truth. your philosophy teacher is exactly right, next time she calls you a whore just tell her that it is simply a reflection on her self and her actions
