We've been friends since high school (7ish years). Sometimes more. Sometimes less. We've exchanged "i love yous" on more than one occasion, but have never been in a serious relationship with each other. Well, today we did some catching up. He wants to leave. I suggest we move to California when I graduate this December. He quickly says yes. We begin to plan. He says that we should brainstorm pros and cons. I don't know if this move is beyond friendship or what. I can definitely see myself spending the rest of my life with him, but I'm not sure if we are entering coupledom, or if I should say anything, or....just go with it. It all seems too perfect. Maybe it is. I'm looking for advice from people who have been through similar situations. I must say I am not naive about living with the opposite sex. I lived with my ex-boyfriend for a year (we were together for 4). I never thought I could live with a man again, but I honestly can't imagine my life without this person. Help?
