head vs. heart...

Discussion in 'Hippies' started by Smerfish, Apr 14, 2005.

  1. Smerfish

    Smerfish Senior Member

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    Im having this huge issue! I have this job where Im babysitting pretty much every day putting in over 50 hours a week and all.. but Im putting out more money for the job than Im earning.. I spend gas money to go to her house to watch him there, I spend moeny helping with food sometimes also....and she expects me to clean her house and gets mad when I dont!!! well anyways I've been thinking about asking her to find another babysitter because I have to start earning more money for school and what not...... but I've noticed the way her son acts and her neighbors have told me stories about how she has just left him in the night!!! and he wakes up screaming and crying and no mommie.... it hasnt happend in awhile though but probably because Im here... he cries alot in his sleep.. and he's way mature for a 3 year old and it makes me kind of nervous... so should I just grin n bear it for the kid or????
     
  2. water_dreamer

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    aww man that's a tough situation, that lady kinda sounds like a headcase. poor kid though, it is REALLY hard thinking about what ya gotta do for him. Maybe you can try and talk to the lady? but she might go all psychotic too...
     
  3. Smerfish

    Smerfish Senior Member

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    people have tried to talk to her and she's always "IM HIS MOTHER I KNOW WHATS BEST!!! you try being a single mom..."
     
  4. ihavethreeguns

    ihavethreeguns Member

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    Break into their house and steal everything. Then come back later and hold them all hostage for $20,000.
     
  5. flowersinmyhair

    flowersinmyhair Member

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    mmhmm..that's a tough situation. That's a hard one...is there a way you can't be a full-time babysitter, but you can still have a relationship with the kid, you know, to be there for him when his mom is not around, or is that all the time? I don't know...just trying to give some advice or something.
     
  6. ihavethreeguns

    ihavethreeguns Member

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    Or break into their house and steak everything then hold them all hostage for$20,000
     
  7. Ankita

    Ankita Member

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    Well, if this kid isn't dieing from the care of his mother then I think you should let it go. Maybe its supposed to be that way. Theres shitloads of kids out there without parents at home all the time for them. Its a part of life. Its what that word Divorce does to families.

    You can suck up the morals and keep going to him but I think its no good on yourself if you can't pay your bills or get your own life rolling. This kid has years to grow up, you don't. Just wing it? Pick the quickest decision.
     

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