Maybe its because I'm fourteen and just broke up with a drama queen actor chick but I thought about it and love is bs, Plz help, is only love true once?in a lifetime
Hey dude don't worry, someone perfect, like you never felt possible will come along and you will know. I know because I was in your situation, and learned they weren't the one, but thought they were at first. I am still looking for the perfect guy, as are you, so don't worry, its not the end of the world. I know you don't think what I am saying is possible, trust me been there done that, but its true. You will find someone better, just don't give up! I am still searching, and I have thought about giving up many times, but if everyone gave up, everyone was a quitter, then where would we be in life? We wouldn't even have love, and thats the beauty of it. You have to strive for what you want! So dude don't give up. You will find someone great for you, and you will understand what I mean! Hang in there bud! Lifes worth the wait! Peace and Love!
dont worry, you'll get over it. in the meantime just enjoy yourself and do your own thing....being with someone is not the most important thing in the world you know, and you're so young. take it easy!
Love is definitely not just once in a lifetime. Look at people who remarry after their spouses pass away for example...love came around again for them Maybe it's a different love than the first time, but it's still there. But as for you, how do you know it was love in the first place? Not to put you down because of your age, really, but you *are* young to have that kind of experience. No, I'm not trying to be a bitch...
Love is old, love is new Love is me love is you Here come the sun kings... Stop trying to grow up so fast. You'll end up like me, a 40-something who acts like a horny 15 year old, smokin' weed, drinkin' beers and watchin' porn... But seriously. The problem with youth is that it's wasted on the young. Have fun and stop pondering things 15 years early. If you haven't found love by the time you're 30, then you can start collecting cats.
Good'n zoomie, but whats the hell is wrong w/ 40 something drinkin, smi=okin being stupid college dorm kid type, here in wyo not a damn thing to do and I agree that everyone is going toooo fast but everyone is going too fast, By the way I dont smoke or drink, or have sex and dont plan to for many years
Is that truly what you want Nolan? To be just like everyone else? Good. 'Tis better not to complicate one's life.
Oh, isn't this cute. You're 14. I'll bet $50 that you never felt love, or know anything about it aside from what hollywood taught you. So you broke up from some childish pretend relationship and for some reason feel hurt by this, activating your natural defense mechanism. You don't blame yourself. You don't even blame her. You blame love. Moron.
Actully syn I blame both of us, and love. your synical, I agree that it probly wasent love but what the hell was it? Zoomie, no I dont want be like everyone, but what to do? Outkast? plz no
You didn't say enough about it for me to judge. I believe it's one of the following: a) A fake, childish, pretend romance in which you indulged because this is what is expected of you by society. You keep seeing 'love' on TV, and so you feel something that you believe to be love. Quite natural. b) You liked the girl as a friend, and you also felt sexual desire towards her. Sex is fun, but calling it love is far more romantic.
b) wow that was good, now that I look back I wish we could hwve just been freinds instead of fucking up the relationship now and in future, relationships can't be the same "just freinds" after that can they. (retorical question but feel free to answer)
It's hard to be just friends if you break it off. Especially with the type of girl you described. Those drama queens sure are emotionally draining, aren't they? Even though you are young, I'm sure this hurts like hell. And it won't after a while. Love comes in many forms and it ususally whips you around and grabs you when you least expect it. You can love more than 1 person. You can fall in love, and for no reason, fall out of love. You're human and it's ok. It sure sux and it hurts so bad you can feel it inside, but it goes away and someone else will fix your broken heart. It might get broken again, but that's the risk. And that's why it feels so good when you ARE in love. I suggest just getting the drama off your back. Life is easier and happier that way. It's WAY to stressful to be a teenager now if you live like you want to be accepted. Accept yourself and just see how awesome the next girl that comes along is.
W/ the girl... can we still talk and be freinds I regret it but for personal reasons I feel I have shuned her lately Thats really bad i know, god this is confusing
first of all syntax sounds bitter and sounds as if he wishes to be wise without really offering insight. why cant a 14 y.o. be in love? do any of us really believe we were in love? those of that do believe in love know that it doesnt have to make sense and it doesnt have to have an age limit... having said that by the sounds of it, it probably wasn't "love" but maybe the only difference between love and affection is the intensity? Nolan, you have figured out that love is bullshit... good for you, we all come to that realization, now you just need to figure out why knowing this we all keep looking i think i have probably drunk too much and spilt to much (of myself ) sorry if this doesnt make sense...
Well, it's possible that he was actually in love. I won't say that it's unheard of that a person of any age would feel true love. But with the way he described it, from the fact that the girl is a "drama queen", from the fact that he was quick to admit that it really wasn't love, from the fact that today's society pushes children to feel love even if they don't really, I think we can pretty safely say that it wasn't real.
