Young&Gay (annoying combination)

Discussion in 'Coming Out and Confused!' started by mrpiddleslives, Apr 16, 2005.

  1. mrpiddleslives

    mrpiddleslives Member

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    Right heres the problem.
    Being gay/bisexual is often hard enough but it makes it so much worse being my age, 17 btw.
    The only gay friend I have is in the same position, we both want to meet gay girls and have relationships but how do we go about it? I mean, were to young to go to gay clubs and even if we do get in to one we feel we might get a bit rejected by people there because of our age.
    How do you deal with being young and gay? I want a girlfriend (Im bisexual but I'm leaning almost all the way to gay atm) I just get bored having boyfriends, I almost always feel nothing sexually for them, it's just the easiest option because it makes you feel wanted I guess and because i get quite a lot of male attention but no female sadly. So how did you meet your girlfriends? It's just me and my mate def need to explore a bit but def not with each other so we need help.
    Yeah just wondering anyways.
     
  2. wild_about_hippies

    wild_about_hippies Member

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    im in the same position as u.... i have trouble finding a girlfriend and i have trouble finding some who is bi or gay like me .... all my guy friends out gay almost i have like 3 gay friends and then there are a couple of straight ones.... but i cant find any gay girls and my school is like filled with gay people but they are like all black and im not racist my im not really attracted to black girls... there are a couple that are really pretty but still so yeah i kno what your going threw....
     
  3. soccergirl

    soccergirl Member

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    I am 17 and also bisexual and I know it can be tough but, you will be suprised how many girls are out there who are gay or at least curious about being with another girl.
     
  4. Ocean Byrd

    Ocean Byrd Artificial Energy

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    Well, I'm 17, and bi, but I have high standards... I'm sexually attracted to a few girls and guys at my school, but I neither know whether they have any interest in me nor what their personality is like. I just haven't been in contact with some of them long enough to consider actually dating them. After my first girlfriend, I realized I needed somebody who wouldn't mind several things about me, and I don't know that about any of these people.

    So, my suggestion: either wait it out, or find a local GLB club/organization so you can meet people around your age.
     

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