ever fucked someone and then ignored them??

this morning my friend shane's girlfriend called and he ignored the call, saying 'oh my girlfriend is such a whore'. and then brittany was telling me about this one guy that she fucked and then he never spoke to her again...and i was thinking damn, guys are fucked, i would never do that to someone if they wanted to talk to me. then i realized that i have done that before, many times after having sex with someone i realize that i dont really like them and they always end up wanting a relationship and i blow them off. damn maybe this should have been in true confessions. anyways, i feel bad but honestly, most anyone who has done this before knows that theres often good reason for it. have any of you ever done this?

 

If I am chasing a girl for a while, sometimes I get to a 'breaking point', where I begin to resent the girl for making me pursue her so hard (particularly when I think I am better than the girl and she should be thanking God for a man like me being interested in her). Then, if and when I finally do get to sleep with her, I totally break her heart to get vengance for all the shit she put me through to get to this point. And I wonder why I don't have a girlfriend.

 

probably because you persue girls that you think your superior to. what, do you go after girls with down syndrome? thats fucked, man. but hey im no better. i always attract the wrong men. the men that either end up in prison for rape or end up in some trailer with a spike in his arm and clipping coupons for vodka and catfood. i hate men. ya know, i can actually understand why you do that. but i dont understand why you keep persuing the same girl.

 

At least he's honest I guess..


I can't say I've ever been with a girl and then never talked to her again. But I suppose thats cause I've never been with a girl who I wasn't emotionally attached to.

I like to think that I wouldn't treat someone like that, but I suppose you can never say never. I wouldn't just not talk to her but I guess I can see me 'letting her off softly' if i didn't like her that much.. I wouldn't hang around forever just to save someone's feelings.

 

No, even if she was a total slut, I would have the class to tell her. I don't like to avoid confrontation.

 

ewwwwwwwwww i think youre full of shit personally youre prob some clown who cant get laid therefor you adopt this false policy of what you would do if a chick actually wanted you

 

why would you sleep with someone who was a total slut thats what i dont get about guys if shes so skanky why would you hop on that

 

desperate times call for desperate measure? Or else they can't get non-slutty gals *shrug*

If some guy tried to get ahold of me after a one night stand (not that I've had one... yet), I'd at least do him the courtesy of saying I don't think it'll work, or I'm not interestedin somethign long term. Tell him, THEN ignore him if he tries to contact me beyond that. No means no.

 

i just couldnt imagine having sex with someone who didnt have strong feelings for me i would feel so crappy afterwards

 

hey if your horny and she's makin' moves on you, you're not too likely too turn her down

 

to answer the question at hand.. yes, i have slept with somebody and then ignored them.. but it wasn't so much the sex part that made me ignore them.. i just didn't relaly like him and was just hanging out with him and his friends because i was lonely.. yes sad i know... but after we fucked, i didn't enjoy it one bit and realized i didn't want to hang around him anymore, even though he seemed to be looking for a lot more in our relationship.

 

okay, here is my tale of ignoring a former lover...

I met a girl and we spent a few days together, going to parties and getting it on. Things happened that we didnt see each other for over a year, but when I did see her again she had changed.
Formerly normal blonde-ish, she had gone to jet black hair, had tits three sizes larger (fake I assumed) and was with a Harley ridin guy. She instantly recognised me, but I didnt know who she was for a few mins as she tried to explain who she was without letting her guy know what was really up. I told her i didnt recognise her, but even when I did I kept it to myself!

 

The few times that I have slept with a girl then ignored her, it was mutual--a bar thing. We'd meet at a bar, talk and hang out, decided we wanted to fuck, left, fucked, then I'd go to bed and she would either stay then bail in the morning, or I would call her a cab home. Everything was understood--we just played a 'part'.

 

In the past .. I tried to ignore them .. argghghghg ...they wanted more. That was the distant past

 

Ewww Ducky that's yucky.

 

I've never done that to anyone, but I've had it done to me....

The guy that I stupidly lost my virginity to ran away when I saw him at school afterwards, and then he went up to my best friend and told her to tell me to never talk to him again. What an ass. The only 2 guys I've slept with since have been in serious relationships.
Oh, and there was one guy...I gave him a bj &) and then told him afterwards that I felt gross cuz i didn't really know him and that I didn't want to do that anymore. He started to ignore me for about a month, but when I told him that I wanted to start hanging out with him again, he took it as another "invitation," which was a REALLY STUPID move on my part. Anyway, about a week later, he came up to me and said that he HAD A CERTAIN TASTE, AND I WASN'T HIS FLAVOUR! That's got to be the worst break-up line type thingy I've ever heard in my life! lol

 

how so?

 

OMG! that made me laugh so freakin hard!!

anyway, no ive never slept with anyone then ignored them. and even if i were to sleep with someone and end up not really liking them, i dont think i could ignore them. i would just tell them staright up what the problem was and go from there.

 

I've never slept with somebody and then ignored them...... but once somebody pisses me off to a point, I usually have no problem avoiding them or being a complete shithead when I do see them.

 

I have slept with someone and then ignored them...here's the scoop.

I was going to a party and drove past and no one was there yet, so I went to this bar that I frequented at the time and sat and drank for a bit. I saw a guy from across the room with long hair and stunning eyes...I minded my own business and shot pool alone...pretty soon he comes over and asks if I minded an opponent. Thinking he was amazingly cute, I couldn't help but say yes. We talked and played pool until the bar closed...winner got a free drink...I worked my ass of playing pool that night. We left together and went drove around listening to Phish, finally we snuck into a private beach...layed a blanket out and held eachother, one thing led to another. He was an amazing person...too amazing. He tried calling me the next day and I didn't answer...I couldn't bring myself to talk to him again, he tried calling a few more times and I didn't answer, finally the calls just stopped. He had travelled the world...seen and did so many things...I felt inferior. Not only that but he had a kid (not that that mattered) and he said him and his baby's mom broke up but they still lived together (not too comfy with that, I might add), so I didn't want to complicate things any more. I often wonder what happened to him...but sometimes we cross paths with people for nothing more than a moment of pure bliss and happiness...