Q for women, about vibrators

I can't seem to enjoy them! They make my clit go numb. Does this happen to anyone else?

 

In my experience, it's super-sensitive at first but after a while my clit grows more numb to it. But that's only during one session. Next time I go back to masturbate, the cycle repeats and my clit starts out just as sensitive as before (unless I've already masturbated that day). But if I use it a lot for a long period of time, It's way harder to orgasm during sex or manually. I find one of the best places to press the vibrator is in the space between the clit and the vaginal opening. Mmmm, sorry I'm way too horny lately.

 

I'll try that. I know some women swear by their vibrators, so I was shocked when bought and used one, that it just made my clit go numb. I'm waiting for the "oh wow, best feeling ever!!!" and get a "huh... now I can't feel anything!!!"

 

Try using it through your knickers

 

try one thats not so strong or not on high speed...

 

Okay ladies listen up. It is really not good to use certain vibrators. Certain vibrators DE-sensitize your clit meaning that after youve used a vibrator for a while your body gets used to it and it makes it harder for other people to get you off. So, th enext time your out buying your vibrator read the box, theyre should be some facts about it.

 

yeah, and direct contact is not the way to go.

 

For me I only go numb after I cum for the first time. But that’s only been happing lately, I use to be able to have multiples off it. I miss the old days

 

get one with multiple speeds, so you can choose what's appropriate for you. Also, you should ask to test out the toy's strength by making the owner/sales person pop some batteries in and giving it a buzz on your hand/counter/whatever. A good sex toy store should be accomodating.

Also, some gals just aren't vibrator-girls. A way I heard of to test, is to place the vibrator just under your nose, so it's barely brushign it (while on)... if it feels good, vibrators are probably great for you. If it's not so good, they probably aren't your first choice for a toy.

 

huh, I've never hurerd of that test befor....i might go try it. lol

 

nifty! thanks for all of your advice!

 

all i can suggest is try to get a regular dildo instead of a vibrator. i have a good ol' jelly dildo and it works just fine and dandy for me.

 

like it's been mentioned before, Innocence, try and use the vibrator indirectly on your general pubic area, on your lips, and the space between your vaginal opening and anus (i forget what that area is called). the vibrator also works great on your anus, if you're into that, and on your skin in general (as a light to medium superficial massager).