Something just made me wonder WHY it is that guys never hook up with girls that share their interests. Doesn't matter if they're metal heads, goth, punk, whatever... You would think that those kinds of people would absolutely hate ultra-preppy bubbleheads... But that's the only type of girl that will ever get a husband. And I used to wonder why extra-ugly obese women were married and not me but it's because they're ultra-preppy and bubbleheaded in nature as well. I can't figure this out. Why would a goth/punk/metal type of person want to be around some bouncy, perky little bubblehead who wears lots of pink, loves to shop and all the other stuff that perky, preppy people like to do? Seriously guys, why don't you want a girl who shares your interests, likes the same music, and so on? And to the metalheads/goth/punk guys who are dating or married to a preppy girl, don't you constantly fight or get sick of hearing Brittany Spears and all the other crap that preppies like? What's wrong with having a metalhead/goth/punk girl to really share yourself with? What the hell's wrong with having common ground? I just don't get it.
I think the good guys fall over themselves trying to hook up with a girl with the same interests. They know we're awesome. Unfortunately, some guys are still good guys, but aren't that strong to defy society. sometimes they can be different themselves, but still want to look normal in the girl and sex department. It's insecurities of their own. It's not that they don't look. It probably DOES drive them crazy, but until they are confidant enough to go out and take a shot at something different, they end up being the losers, because they're with someone they really don't like. I'd rather personally be alone than be with someone I don't like, but that's because I'm strong and know what I want. Then, there are other guys who actually believe that what society tells them is pretty and won't settle for anything less. It's not even worth the time thinking about missing out with those guys.
That is me, too. I would rather suffer in lonliness than end up with someone that could potentially make me even more miserable through endless arguing and infidelity. So I will continue to searcf for someone that shares common interests with me, so we can build a friendship...then go from there.
That was a HUGEEEEEEE stereotype. You're really baseing what a person is like simply based on the way they look. I guess I dress rather "preppy", wear lots of pink because it's one of my favorite colors, and have a bubbly personality at times. HOWEVER, I'm not "popular" by any means and my boyfriend outwardly doesn't look like he goes with me at all, since he's a computer geek metal head. But, my appearance is only skin deep and I'm just as much as a metal head as my boyfriend, but you'd never know it by looking at me. I can talk about obscure Norwegian metal bands with the best of them, despite the pink bows in my pigtails, often drawing odd looks. And in actuality, the goth and punk girls tend to be the ones with the least amount of substance. When you subscribe to a style that is meant to be noncomformist, but really is anything but, you lose all sense of self. Not to mention fund the Hot Topic nation.
I have known many happilym arried women, mostly goths or punks or rockibilly types that married in thier genres.
I know plenty of married folks who aren't "bubbly preppy-types"... so yeah, it sucks that someone you were interested in decided to go for not you, go for someone you perceive as bubbly and preppy instead. Many other fish. As for why people go for apparent opposites, a lot of people feel they need another person to complete them. Why would the get someone a lot like them for that, they'll have almost all the same "holes" in themselves (not to say everyone feels this way, but most of those who need another to feel whole don't understand how others can't)... need to find an opposite to fit, like a puzzle piece. and yeah, stereotyping isn't good for anyone, but you've already gotten a fair bit of flak on that one so I won't rag on you about it.
I will GLADLY get together with a woman who shares interests with me..and isn't an idiot. All the women that I talk to are "OMG, like I like like OMG like like like" Sure they look good, or at least think they do, because they wear $40 worth of make up a day. All they're interested in is shopping or gossip...idiots. As you can see in a previous post made by me...I'm single for that reason.
To the one who said I don't have any substance - that can't be any further from the truth! I find that preppy people don't have any substance - just listen to whatever MTV or the radio wants to feed you and concern yourself only with looking like the pop stars you see and you're only excuse is "because that's what everyone else likes". But you know, I think blind rebellion is as stupid as blind following. So believe me, I'm eternally single because I am an INDIVIDUAL with a BRAIN and an OPINION on everything! And no, no guy I wanted any time recently has rejected me. I only posted my OBSERVATION that I never see goth, punk, or metalhead types with a woman of the same. They've always got an airheaded preppy girl who's going on about some clothes or jewlery she sees and I don't see how they can stand it and why they never marry someone who shares their interests. But I know that guys are never truly interested in me to begin with, not on a serious level at all, because they will ultimately go for someone conformist and "normal" to society's standards. So I wondered what the hellt he deal was, because I personally look for people that I have THINGS IN COMMON with. But they only marry the bubbleheads.
