soul mates...yay or nay?

So, load of crap or is it not?.........

 

i hope not... i feel like i have a 'soul mate' we are not together or anything..but a weird connection excists..

 

Soul mates very much do exist to some--just depends how in touch you are with your heart and soul, and how much of a connection you feel when you are with someone; obviously if your heart and soul bond and do not go astray, I'd say that would make for a soulmate...

 

It's a load of crap. There's NOT someone for everyone. You grow up believing you'll some day find your soul mate, and when that time seems to arrive, you're thinking with your hormones and nothing else.

 

aye, 4 me it is a fact

 

Yeah then when the hormones settle down and your still 'crazy' about the person..then its diffrent.

 

I believe it, and I've met a few in my lifetime...

 

I think everyone has multiple "soul mates", or at least multiple people you are extremely compatible with. I feel as if I'm with my soul mate because we're literally the only people who understand each other when we go off on philisophical or political rants, even though we don't always agree. A soul mate is something different to everyone..

 

I belive in soul mates....i'm undecided as to whether theres one or many...but i belive in them....

 

I believe in multiple soulmates entering and exiting our lives.

 

I believe in them, I've got mine.

 

i've got mine too

 

I believe Measa is my soul mate! I tell him so all the time.

 

I had heard the term, but didn't give it much thought up until December 13th, 2003. That was when I asked her, "Hey, wanna go hang out?" and she said "sure." Four days later she spent the night, four days after that she moved in, and ten days after that she proposed. By the time she moved in I knew her, and she knew me better than anyone I have ever known. In four days she was closer to me than any women before. After a few hours of talking we were like lifelong pals. Neither had to make any concessions, compromises, and neither demanded any. I later researched some of the more 'out there' aspects of our bond, and concluded we are twin flames. Kind of like soul mates on 'roids. I seriously doubt there is another one like her for me... I never could have imagined there was even one....she is far, far beyond my wildest fantasy dreamgirl. If this doesn't make sense, I am not surprised. It rarely does. None of my friends or family understand, and I gave up trying to explain it a year ago.

 

BGXIII, your story is a one in a million, congrats! For the most part, I believe soul mates exist, but they're nearly impossible to find. I mean there's like 10 billion people in the world. In an average lifetime you may meet 10,000. The math looks pretty bleak. On the plus side, though, I think it's possible to mould your own soulmate (or be moulded into one) if you have enough patience. Baah, either way it's easier to get a dog.

 

If someone had given me the power to create a partner with every quality I could imagine, and gave me all the time in the world to fashion my ultimate fantasty dream lady...........my creation wouldn't come close to her. She blew me away, totally, and forever. I could go on forever, but suffice to say, we clicked like I never had a clue two people could click. she called me her mirror, and trust me it wasn't cuz I look like her........lol

 

I don't necessarily believe in soulmates at the moment...but after BlackGuard's story...I don't know what to think.

I hope I can find someone like that one day..You're a lucky man.

 

I agree, and I have found mine, although he is 29 years older than me... Nah, you really have to be in touch with who you are. I don't think many find their soul mates, but I for sure have.

 

did u read my +ve -ve post in this section?
I am far luckier than I deserve.... no idea why... but I couldn't ask for more.
I don't know what to think either, but it is the thing that made me a totally firm believer in miracles.

 

For all of you who have their soulmates, hold onto them for dear life. I not only believe in soulmates, I met mine. But I lost her. BG, your story reminded me so much of my own experience. Her and I are also Twin Flames..by definition...two bodies that share one soul. I knew from the first minute I saw her that she was it for me. But I was stupid and now I am spending my life trying to get her back. Because yes, there is only one for each person. Only a few are lucky enough to meet that person. I will never settle for less because once you have loved and been loved by a soulmate, nothing will ever compare.