How Do you Feel About Your Daddy?

(I don't mean your father I mean your man.) I want to know if any of you ladies call your man your daddy? Do you love him with all your might? Do you think it's wild to call him that or do you feel the term is outdated and doesn't fit your relationships? Pick one or more and tell me why?



I know I can only speak for me but I think it's really kind of sexy to call a man daddy. (It's a powerful thing for me. (Hard to explain) It just feels so raw.

 

I do it to turn him on, he likes to be called big daddy. I think it's sexy.

 

It grosses me out. Sorry.... I guess I've just heard too many horror stories about girls being molested by their fathers, their 'daddies'.... my lover is my lover, not family.

 

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That's ok, no need to be sorry. I knew that some people don't/wouldn't like it. I don't think of child molesters as daddys though. (They are just perves with penises.)

 

It would give me the willies. Hearing the word Daddy, Dad, Father, etc. makes me think of my Dad, so yeah couldn't do it. Samething with the word Mamma that guys use. It gives me the willies if someone would call me that. I would think of my Mom. haha Oh well, that's just me.

 

to me it's not even the term daddy that's a turn on, it's the submissive role I play.

 

I think I would call my man something like that once we were older and had kids and stuff. My grandparents called eachother "Father" and "Mother" sometimes when it was just me around... it was as openly affectionate as they ever got! lol. But I don't think I could call my man "Daddy" without getting skeved. "Daddy" and "Father" are different... "Father" is more sexually-neutral, I guess.

 

I hate that term used for a lover. I couldn't even bring myself to say it to my man. I just think of my father...and eww...yeah, I hate it...lol. I don't mind being called Mama though, for some reason. I guess the terms "papa" and "mama" to me are more like...cute and just fun names. But "Daddy"...to each their own, but I personally can't stand it...

 

yeah same here. *cringes*

 

Yeah same here.


It just seems disturbing in a freudian way.

 

I could never ever call a man daddy. It's just way too disturbing.

 

It grosses Bear out if I call him "Daddy" or "My Old Man" or anything paternal. "Maggie, that's creepy. I am not your father." So I don't do it. TO each her own. It really doesn't bother me. Altough when "My Old Man" was in more common usage, you would sometimes get confused if a girl was talking about her daddy or her man.

I sometimes will refer to him as "Papa" when I am talking to him about the children, "Papa, are you going to take us all on a walk today." Or something like that. But not sexually.

 

I won't ever...Because I was molested by my daddy, I can't necessarily seperate the bad connotation from the wonderful man that I would be referring to....

So no...I never would...

 

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Wow, I'm sorry you had to go through that.

I don't mean it to be any way other than woman to her man. You see, when I was young I stopped calling my daddy and now call him dad. When I was young I saw nothing wrong with daddy but as I got older I thought dad sounded better. I can't speak for everyone, just me, but when I hear daddy i almost always think of a woman and a strong sexy guy, a little child, or a child that doesn't know to switch to dad. (A lot of girls in the south call their dads daddy forever. It's not dirty or wrong just different to me.) I think daddy is cool for your dude but pop, da or dad is cool for your dad.

 

exactly. there's a difference between being mama,,as in a cheesy, 'foxy mama' kind of piss-take way and being a mama.

but daddy...I dunno, I wouldn't feel that comfortable using it. It either brings to mind your father or like a sugar daddy - either way I wouldn't feel like the person's equal if i was using it.

 

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I feel the opposite. Mama makes you sound old but daddy makes me think of Bruce Springsteen. Long dark daddy, wooohoo! lol

 

No way, that's disturbing to me. *shudders* I love my father, but I certainly don't want to think of him while bonking my husband. Talk about a mood killer.

My husband calls me "sexy mama", but it's because he thinks I'm sexy, and well, I'm the mama to his children. He certainly wouldn't call me "mommy" in a passionate moment. Ew, that would be scarey.

 

How come you don't think of mama as a sex thing but daddy is one? (Come on that's not fair ladies.) Sexy mama is still mama and I don't see how it's any better than daddy. Why do women think daddy is their father and men don't think mama is their mama? Come on now, when a guy says coming mommy or mother, it sounds weird to me. (I'm just starting something ignore me.) I like daddy 'cause my dad is my dad and my daddy is my long dark daddy. I want to call my man daddy and if you keep tlking like this I just know he won't let me.Bellfire stomps foot

 

I have never ben able to call a bf "daddy"...whenever I say "daddy" I think of my father and if it doesn't disturb me it at least kills the mood ya know? lol I call my husband daddy around our son but never in a sexual way...it just doesn't feel right to me...but of course I feel to each their own..

Edited after I saw bellfire's post:
...Chris can call me "a sexy mama" just like I could call him "a sexy daddy"...since we have a baby now we are a "mommy" and a "daddy"....before I had Jeremy I wouldn't have wanted to hear it at all.... but I wouldn't want him to call me 'sexy mama' like when he wants to do it ewwwww...to me I just feel like "mama" and "daddy" are parents...not sexy at all lol

 

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Cute pic. Is that the equivalent to pull my finger lol? (Teasing) I like to see a dad and child together, that's cute.